2006-08-22 23:29:05 · 38 answers · asked by hotgal 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Don't have sex until marriage. Dump him because he's only dating you for that reason. If you do it, he will leave you. You don't really love him, it's just lust.
2006-08-23 10:02:32 · answer #1 · answered by Kenneth S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think that you should break up with him. He is just taking advantage and using you. He don't love you, because if he did he would respect you and your body. If he does none of those things then you need to leave him. Don't keep doing it, because the more you do it, the more and more he will take from you. He's not a good person, and you know it. And another thing, he is constantly forcing you to have sex with him... Thats rape. especially when you don't want it. Its just as simple as that. Turn him in to the police. Its a matter of time before he goes out and does the same with another. You say you love him, but do you love him enough to keep abusing you? You think about that...
But I personally think that you should let him go. Don't put her life at risk for him.....
2006-08-23 04:43:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hotgal - how old are you?
I suspect that you are teen girl, probably under 18 and probably a girl with poor self-esteem.
You are afraid of letting your boyfriend go because you are afraid of being alone.
So you let him control you, use you and abuse you.
You think (wrongly) that if you let him have his way with you, that he will love you.
You think (again, wrongly) that this is your way of showing him that you love him.
This is NOT normal.
This is NOT love.
This is NOT what a healthy relationship is all about.
You are setting your life up for utter and complete failure if you do not take action, NOW.
First, understand that it is your body.
Only you can and should have the right to allow anything or anyone to enter it, penetrate it, abuse it or love it.
Second, love is based on mutual respect.
Do you know what mutual respect means?
Think about it for a while and ask yourself if respect means being used by someone.
As for sex (in any form), are you using protection, does he wear a condom, are you doing everything you can to prevent sexually transmitted diseases (STD) and from getting pregnant?
A boy like him probably is having unprotected sex with other girls like you.
He will most likely give you an STD like herpes or Chlamydia (or worse, like AIDS).
He could get you pregnant.
And then he'll leave you.
You and the baby.
The baby you are not ready to have because you don't have a good education, you don't have a job and you don't want to be alone, without some worthless guy who treats you like dirt.
Girl, growing up is about being responsible.
It's time you took responsible for the one thing you CAN control - YOU!
Dump this loser, talk to a counselor and get some advice on how to take control of your own life and learn to be a responsible person before your life becomes a nightmare.
2006-08-23 03:22:35 · answer #3 · answered by docscholl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is called date rape! Whenever a girl says NO even if its a boyfriend or even a husband NO MEANS NO and if they force you its rape! I would tell him you will NOT put up with it any longer! When you see the signs that he is going to get all frisky and forceful get away from him no matter what it takes. Tell him exactly how u feel and if it doesnt stop- you will give him the boot! Good luck to you! You deserve soooo much better than that- he is totally disrespecting you as a person and as his girlfriend
2006-08-23 04:39:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't blame your b/f. Your name says it all. HOTGAL. You may have tempted him taste your lovely fruit first,like Eve did to Adam.Now he is hungry always.He has tasted the sweetness and can not resist it. But still talk to him be firm in your discussion whit him, Tell him every thing is good and enjoyable in a limit.Make him understand that you also wish to enjoy sex as much as he does, but that you prefer to have it in a romantic mood and not when he forces you.He will change. It may take some time.Be patient if you love him.If he loves you he will respect your wishes,if he does not you should understand what game he is playing with you. Stand firm. Forget him.
2006-08-22 23:59:11 · answer #5 · answered by Alan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry But I Think YOu Should Break Up. Coz He is Havin You Only For Sex. Sorry
Truth Hearts I Know
Do What ever u think is right
2006-08-22 23:32:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would tell my parents or another trustworthy adult.(even a close teacher could help) but If you mean rape wise dump him and call the police. If he's just saying like "come on baby let's do it" dump walk away and never look back to him.B/c he's just using you no matter how much you think he likes you.I sure hope this helps.
2006-08-23 03:10:46 · answer #7 · answered by Kaley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I was almost in that same situation before. You need to break up with him. i broke up with him before it started cuz i realized that he did not really love me he just wanted sex, we should not have to be forced if were in love with each other he should respect the answer no
2006-08-23 01:08:46 · answer #8 · answered by Thickness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex meen: throw it in,and lets dance...Making Love meen: It's not about who's having a good time,it's about the feelings...Your boyfriend found a babydoll to satify his appetit...First advice wood be to kick his balls,but u love him, so....I know you will stay and let him to do the same ting over and over again,until you will understand that he's an ***..Good luck Hotgirl..
2006-08-23 00:19:45 · answer #9 · answered by dangerno12000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loved you, he would not force you. If you loved him, you would care about yourself more. Report rape to the police, go to a rape crisis centre, or phone one. Talk to your mom. You don't say your age; that would have helped with advice. Get out of the situation - it's dangerous and toxic.
2006-08-22 23:33:16 · answer #10 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You call the police...that is RAPE. You are too young to be having sex anyway and do not know what love is. If he love you he would respect you and it is apparent he does not. You also need to love yourself. Finish school...stop having sex and call the police on him.
2006-08-22 23:37:45 · answer #11 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋