My guy and I have been together less than two weeks. I've given him oral and we've done dry humping (him more than me). I told him I wanted him inside me (Those are the words I used) and he basically said another time (At one point he said, right time and right place). He doesn't have a problem with me giving him oral but when it comes to intercourse, its a different thing. He lives with his parents, I would understand not having sex in the house but yet he's had me give him oral there. We see each other often (I'm seeing him for lunch later). He has no problem showing affection with me in public and has discussed relationship... both he and I want one, he's introduced me to his friends. But after the last oral, I feel sexually rejected and felt more like an object. Guys, what does this mean? Honesty... even the brutal kind... is helpful. I like him a lot. When it comes to sex and relationships, I'm extremely inexperienced... actually he's the first that I've given a ******* too.
2006-08-22 23:04:37 · 10 answers · asked by Curious Georgina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you're the one making or allowing things for you to think that you're being an object. do you think you're not making him your object by expecting him and actually telling him to get inside of you?
well, if i were you just let things decide where they would lead to.dont force it. dont rush girl. it will flow smoothly depending on the level of your relationship and if both of you are really serious about each other. be sure that he's not just using you or you just using him to avoid great regrets later okay.good luck
2006-08-22 23:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by snoopy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmm. Very interesting question indeedy. First off, i have to say that you are being very forthcoming and open about your private life on the internet..so be careful about weird people trying to contact you. -use your brainiac survival skills here your mother taught you eh?-
Second off, I think we should overcome the taboo of talking about sex as it is a natural part of our lives.
Now for your problem, I as a woman would think, that all boys would tell you..... Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free?
2006-08-22 23:10:32 · answer #2 · answered by Vicky L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you doing? It is less than two weeks and you are giving him oral.
Dump this guy immeidately. He is just using u, is he giving u oral if not having sex, i don't know y we girls always give. You have done a right thing by asking him for it. We should also express our desires equally. If he cannot fulfill his desires just ask him y?and if he is not able to give u a good reason just dump him.
2006-08-22 23:23:40 · answer #3 · answered by cc20 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Forget this loser. He only wants the instant pleasure you are happy to give him. The reason he doesn't want to go the whole way is he is worried this will lead to commtment on his part. Respect yourself and dump this guy. The reason he has introduced you to his friends is to brag about what you have done .
2006-08-22 23:11:27 · answer #4 · answered by marcus p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a nice interesting story may be it can be published as a documentary good imagination keep it up.Great Job.Go ahead
2006-08-22 23:13:47 · answer #5 · answered by santhosh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask HIM to give you an oral and judge his reaction
2006-08-23 20:26:45 · answer #6 · answered by shart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it anymore...Heck if he is getting that, why would he want anything else....And what the heck is dry humping????
2006-08-22 23:23:09 · answer #7 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its very nice of u to love him. he is definitely getting his shot and not giving u ur dues.
2006-08-22 23:16:47 · answer #8 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your doing too much too soon hun
2006-08-22 23:07:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
have you had sex b4? maybe he is waiting because of that?
2006-08-22 23:14:19 · answer #10 · answered by ricky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋