Oh no, you must be going through such a hard time =\ I just broke up with my boyfriend too, but I would be so devastated if he got a new girlfriend already.
Well honey, all you can do is just look forward and move on. Just be strong, okay? Of course there will be times when you miss him, and that's okay. It's completely normal. So don't be afraid to miss him, but there's nothing but to move on.
Wouldn't you rather move on as a happier, stronger person? Rather than being depressed and wasting your time over a guy who's sooo not worth it? Come on, I'm sure you're a nice girl who could've done better than that guy anyway. Just be strong, and stand up tall. You'll get through this, I promise =)
Here are some things to focus on, so all your attention isn't on this problem.
1) Focus on your education and/or career
2) Spend some more "me" time. Pamper yourself! Get your nails done, get a massage, get a new hairdo! You deserve it =)
3) Take advantage of the single life! Go party without having to worry about a guy getting jealous
4) Go flirt!
5) Spend more time with family and friends. We tend to lose touch with them when we get boyfriends =\
6) Take up a hobby! Such as collecting things, horseback riding, etc.
7) Learn something new!
8) Redecorate your room or your house =)
There are so many things to do when you're single. Take advantage of it =)
2006-08-22 22:21:09
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answered by Anonymous
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Join him and his girlfriend for a 3 some.
2006-08-22 22:19:05
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answered by Ruski 2
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As time past by, you will forget him... If he really mean alot to you, try to talk to him again. If nuthin can bring back the relationship, is better to let go. Is hard but still need to try. All the best!
2006-08-22 22:24:08
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answered by hui1174 1
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U will never get over him la....find yrslf some1 else n stay focus on yr own "life"...but no matter how he will still b in a part of u.... if u love him tat deeply....as u see himslf being hapi....u shld b hapi too la
2006-08-22 22:20:19
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answered by D@ 3
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these things take time,sometimes people tend to remember only the good things when they lose someone,think about why you arent with him anymore. Its so easy for them to be perfect in our fantasys,remember hes not! stay busy,go out with your friends. dont sit around moping about him,hes moved on you do the same!
2006-08-22 22:45:26
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answered by Anonymous
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get a new guy urself.. coz till the time u don't divert ur feelings.. u'll never get over him. although, i understand what im saying maybe difficut for u to perform, but then u gotta..
all the best..
2006-08-22 22:34:58
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answered by Anonymous
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try to entertain yourself by meeting friends, people or doing interesting things... and don't ever get disappointed or look down on yourself for loosing him
2006-08-22 23:10:08
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answered by Anonymous
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I've been there, It just takes time, you will eventually find someone who is better for you
2006-08-22 22:23:00
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answered by Anonymous
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that's very a multitude. it fairly is fairly up for grabs. you will never fairly locate out out of your lady pal. She will never inform you the reality. curiously that she nonetheless has emotions for him. i do no longer blame her. in case you fairly "enjoyed" somebody, you may no longer only turn it off. it fairly is totally properly to have emotions for yet another individual, besides the shown fact that it is the "committment" that counts. as long as you may "understand" that she's committed to you, i think of you would be ok. She cares approximately him only like she cares approximately you. besides the shown fact that, are not getting me incorrect. i'm on your ingredient right here. i think of that her "being concerned" for her ex is slightly too severe. After she had 'shrink the bond' with him, she could have carried out only that. particular, she could be mad if her ex dated somebody else, yet she shouldn't enable it prepare. and actually are not getting quite disenchanted approximately it in front of you. that's her first mistake. you have each suited to ask her approximately her emotions for this guy. And her getting mad at you for inquiring is her 2nd mistake. i think she's fairly has the "combat or flight" syndrom, and she or he's struggling with. people frequently get protective while a topic hits slightly too close. i think of you caught her in a lie. i does no longer supply up all wish. i'm particular she feels prepared approximately your courting, yet she's only no longer letting bypass of her previous. i could be very careful however. save an eye fixed out for signs and warning signs. If she says "we are nonetheless stable pals", you're able to offer her the honour and income of the doubt and enable her be. besides the shown fact that, in case you start to establish issues like her speaking to him in many circumstances, or going places with him. Then, that's once you're able to confront her. you're able to think of to your self, what's the line you prefer to charm to. and then, stick to it. while you're pleased along with her speaking to him, then enable her. while you're no longer, then you certainly would desire to enable her understand. Then, if she does no longer appreciate your suggestions and emotions, then that's a clean shrink sign that she does no longer prefer to enable bypass of her ex and hence you may desire to enable her bypass. in case you adore her and have confidence her, then supply her the area. besides the shown fact that, "sleep with one eye open" in case you already know what I propose.
2016-11-05 10:43:41
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answered by ? 4
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that should be reason enough he has a girlfriend move on
2006-08-22 22:20:49
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answered by destiny 6
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