Adultery is when one person,in a marriage,cheats on the other.The causes are different,as per couple/person.....such as.......not happy at home,not getting enough sex,bored with marriage,whatever sad excuse the cheater comes up with.The solution is to QUIT cheating and pray that your partner will forgive you.
2006-08-22 21:46:39
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answered by Anonymous
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2016-12-23 02:22:00
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answered by ? 3
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Adultery is extramarital sex.
The causes are studied by psychologists, sociologists, social workers, and anthropologists. There is no one single answer, and each situation varies. However, some possible factors are:
- the inability of one spouse to sexually satisfy the other
- lack of commitment to the institution of marriage
- sex addiction
- extended periods of being apart and/or great distances
- incongruent principals/standards/morals concerning relationships, including marriage
- anger/revenge/jealousy
- insecurity and or low self-esteem
- overuse of alcohol or drugs
What a solution to an affair might be is subjective to what one would see as the desired outcome. Some people would not wish to continue such a relationship, while others may see it as a mistake that can be forgiven, while still others consider it normal behavior under certain circumstances (e.g. great distances/time apart).
If you are trying to repair the relationship I recommend you seek the help of a counselor trained specifically to deal with marital problems; preferably one that has the trust of both people and, even better, one that is a trusted source of moral authority (such as a member of the clergy).
2006-08-22 21:57:37
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answered by WebJedi 1
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I had this conversation (slightly squiffy admittedly) with a friend yesterday who is a probation officer. We both attended a grammar in Croxteth( now a housing estate..natch) and know the area well although we have never lived there. This way of life for lads is the flip-side of girls getting pregnant at a very young age to a variety of men throughout their lives. When life is so without hope and aspirations then life is whittled down to the bare **** bones and the only thing s that carry status and respect within these communities is the role of Mother or Crim. I don't agree with the notion that all people must aspire to be socially mobile or should aspire to uni. Its a nonsense to assume that all people could or would want to do that. In respect of lads especially being as that is what we are dealing with, I think education is failing them dreadfully. Not in terms of attainments but the whole academic process suits girls much better and within the first couple of years of infants a lot of lads from disadvantaged backgrounds already have the mindset of 'I'm crap at this'. I just wonder why the persistence in teaching them in a way that fails continues...who does it serve? I wonder... A soloution would be to pay people decent wages for a days work. How can anyone stand in judgement of another human for having no motivation to work when the rate of benefits ( the bare minimum for existence) is virtually the same as the minimum wage? Obviously there are other factors such as broken communities, lack of family support. father figures, positive role models. I feel sorry for the many many decent hardworking people who live in the Croxteth / Norris Green area and are now tarred as scummy wasters with no morals our conscience. One post yesterday blamed the events on 'the area they come from' How short sighted, patronising and damaging is that? So all those young lads watching and listening to that kind of attitude on the news or in the media are castigated and labelled before they have even begun...
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2016-04-14 02:03:37
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answered by Anonymous
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First of all-you need a dictionary dude!! Adultery is when a spouse (also known as a husband or wife) cheats on his/her partner. The cause is still a mystery. It can range anywhere from money problems,sex,high expectations, and so on. Solution usually ends in separation (divorice) Biblically, if a man or women cheats on his/her spouse it is grounds for divorice. If the couple chooses to stay together its usually hard to regain trust. hope that answers your question.. if not ask your parents.
2006-08-22 21:47:05
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answered by runner_chick 2
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Adultry in modern terms is when a married person has sex with a person outside the marriage, without the consent of the marriage partner. There are many causes, usually a lack of satisfaction within the relationship-sexual, emotional ect. The solution is to bolster the relationship so that it provides the missing factors.
2006-08-22 21:44:37
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answered by Anarchy99 7
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Adultery is having sex outside of marriage. The cause can be varied for different people. Men usually cheat soley for sexual reasons or to discover a different "feeling" so to speak. Women usually do for revenge (at their husband), or because the man is not treating her well and not paying attention to her.
The solution is having a strong desire to stop. It is like making an obese person diet. You can not do it for them, it has to come from within the person doing it. For people who are religious, I hear church can help.
2006-08-22 21:46:49
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answered by Rachel 4
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2016-02-12 00:09:44
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answered by Anonymous
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2015-01-28 12:24:59
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answered by Anonymous
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2014-09-25 21:27:35
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answered by Anonymous
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