Whenever i ask my friend dat is there any -ve point in me ? She use to tell that no, there is no problem in me.She tells that she says all this seriosly. Even then also i dont hav much frends. I want to become like dat everybody can be my frend easily.
2006-08-22 21:32:36 · 17 answers · asked by ANANYA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hey I m good looking ,smart, intellegent and i hav 2-3 frends only with whom ican share many things.
2006-08-22 21:40:01 · update #1
then you have to show yourself more. i do not know your age. you have to go where there are people and say hi to them and just be around people more. to a certain decree. see when people know you, they want to be like you, or have your friends. so more people want to know you or know what you are about. how to do this: starts off with respect, next being kind to everyone. see people will see this and want what you have or want you for the love you give. hygiene helps, too. having clothes to the occasion. don't stick out in clothe. but blend in with good colors. being smart helps but keep it in your pocket for you only. how does she know everything. (keep them guessing.) stick to what you believe, no one likes instability. there is a difference between friendship and aquaintance. I have 25 aquaintance. and 3 close friends. know the difference. also, be happy that will help you.
2006-08-22 23:11:58 · answer #1 · answered by bankone1111 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my entire family and only have two friends. You do not seem to have an attitude problem to me. Did you ever think it just might be them. I had to find that out the hard way. I dumped my best friend for thirty years because she dictated everything we did and she works and I don't so I understand to a point but her boyfriends parents were coming home from FL and she said well I just can't get together with you until I see them. Mind you her boy fiend was under house arrest for two years and she had to take him back and forth to work everyday until he got his license. I think since I have no one she should see she isn't the only one in the world and stop being so selfish.
2006-08-23 04:39:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to offend anyone reading this, but most people who have a ton of friends that seem to like them, usually like them on a superficial level. And you have to be a certain type of person to attract tons of people who think your cool and want to always be around you. Some people naturally have a persona that most mainstream people like and gravitate to. Some people are likable but only to certain people, or even a small handful of people. I say, be yourself, be natural and honest, and you will find friends that like you, and those friendships may be very strong and real. It's worth it.
I hope that cheers you up a little.
2006-08-23 04:36:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Best advice I can give you is to stop trying to please everyone!! Just be friendly, respect others, and treat them as you would want to be treated. If people dont like you for you then its them that has the problem. Also Dont be afraid to step outside of the box and talk to new people!! Mabie the people you're trying to be friends with are not the type of friends you want anyway.
2006-08-23 04:39:47 · answer #4 · answered by runner_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gal, u cant have everyone ur friend, some will like u some will not. and that friend was lying there is no single humanbeing withoult fault! So u have, she is just not honest enough to tell u!
just be ur self n be friendly nut dont force it, otherwise u will not be happy at the end of the day!
2006-08-23 04:39:06 · answer #5 · answered by aasweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think people dont like you it could be true .. or it could be that you have no self-confidence .. or it could be someone spreading things about you.
What you need to do is be yourself. Be kind and courteous to people, listen to them, understand where they are coming from.
Basically treat people as you would like them to treat you and you will find some people like you - they will become friends, those who dont - wont .. you cant please everyone so you need to make yourself someone that YOU can be proud of and the rest will follow :)
ps I will be the first member of your fan club :) See wasnt so hard was it :)
2006-08-23 04:37:15 · answer #6 · answered by enzuigiriuk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I don't think it matters so much. Having true friends are more important.
To your question: Humor, most like to be with people that are funny. Be more easy going but not shy, Come up with cool ideas that people want to follow.
2006-08-23 04:38:38 · answer #7 · answered by swish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's really hard for girls to make friends. Even if you're nice and all it's still not easy. But true and good friends are important. So I suggest you find some true friends instead of just friends....
2006-08-23 04:38:20 · answer #8 · answered by QQ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have 2-3 good friends, why do you want more that may not be. Friendship takes time and energy to cultivate and grow.
You are very lucky already.
2006-08-23 04:42:16 · answer #9 · answered by Hadley Hodgkin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be more confident. Most important of all, keep smiling ALWAYS. And don't be shy to discuss your problems. To make new friends, try to find reasons to talk to them. Be ready to help everyone. And don't worry about -ve points in you.
2006-08-23 05:37:54 · answer #10 · answered by ankit pruthi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋