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2006-08-22 21:27:31 · 13 answers · asked by Musics in my soul 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell her how u feel about this and if she is a rela friend she will stop if not find another friend
2006-08-22 21:30:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feed her a piece of fruit, she might be hypogycemic and sugar can help. If that's not it, maybe she has a hormonal imbalance. If not, maybe she is going through some stressful time andto be a good listener but that she needs to tell you waht the problem is so you can help her and not to take it out on you instead. Then tell her you love her but your feelings get hurt when she acts that way and that when she does you will walk awy from her even in the middle of the conversation because she is on notice now her remarks are hurting your self esteem and making you very sad. To think about it, people who really care about each other, and their friendship are not disrespectful, mean, abusive...
DONT TAKE IT. She continues to do it, only for one reason, and one reason onlyy. YOU LET HER. So be good to yourself even if your so called friend cant be to you walk away...
2006-08-23 04:36:34 · answer #2 · answered by TrueSoul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend that you do not like the mood s/he is in. If your friend is a real friend, s/he will snap out of it. If not, then time to leave and tell your friend that you will not put up with the moods.
Friends share feelings and accept them :-) So both should work it out in the open, and not be silent or ignore it --- can get worse. There must be a reason = Find out what it is and work together at fixing it :-)
2006-08-23 04:35:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend like this once...she had a lot of problems to say the least. My best advice is to try to confront her about her behavior and tell her that it upset you. Find out if there is anything you said/did to make her act that way. If you cant get through to her, I suggest finding other friends. From personal experience some people are just impossible to please all the time. Its not you're fault if they cant be happy. Dont let them make you feel like its you.
2006-08-23 04:34:19 · answer #4 · answered by runner_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I know you're not really in the greatest of moods right now, and I understand that, but that doesn't give you an excuse to treat me like crap".
And if she says something nasty back-- then you slap her, ok no, I'm joking, then you tell her you'd rather not be around her and walk away.
2006-08-23 04:44:29 · answer #5 · answered by Fanar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fits of this kind often have to see with either hormonal variation or abuse in caffein. Besides, one must not forget that women are under much more pressure than men (oh : small things, apparently of minor importance, that add up one to another daily....) and responsibilities when they have children for instance. Be patient. Try to make her laugh
2006-08-23 04:40:35 · answer #6 · answered by sourire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it .. she may not know she is hurting you.
If that doesnt work AND her friendship is worth it then when she is not in a mood talk to her and agree that when she IS you will just walk away and give her time to calm down.
2006-08-23 04:35:02 · answer #7 · answered by enzuigiriuk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to stop being nasty and walk away from her, if she doesn,t want to be your friend anymore because you,ve walked away, it,s her loss, she doesn,t sound like a nice person anyway
2006-08-23 04:43:14 · answer #8 · answered by slowlearner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a bi*tch and get an attitude back. Usually people that act bi*tchy can't handle it when someone is rude to them. So when she questions you about it tell her you thought you guys were being bi*tches for that day.
2006-08-23 04:34:16 · answer #9 · answered by Miss. Tee98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would refuse to be around her while she's in one of these moods! u should let her know that you don't approve of this, and will not put up with it!
2006-08-23 04:30:22 · answer #10 · answered by thundakat312 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋