2006-08-22 21:12:15 · 13 answers · asked by Romeo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't interrogate them, but try to get them to open up about themselves. Casually ask about their job, their family and friends. What kinds of things do they do in their free time? Discuss hobbies, what kinds of music/movies/books they prefer. Be honest about yourself and what you enjoy in life. Note these things: Do they complain a lot? Have they changed a lot of jobs/moved frequently over the years? Do they say rude things about their parents or ex girlfriends/wives? Any of these could be a warning sign.
or read "The Book of Questions" by Gregory Stock, PhD.
2006-08-22 21:35:54 · answer #1 · answered by Ðøwñ tø Ëã®th 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to make a list of the things you are most interested in to know about her and them simply ask. Good luck!
2006-08-23 06:29:54 · answer #2 · answered by anamaria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them their opinion about a certain type of news that's been going on this week and their response should tell you about their personality.
2006-08-23 04:14:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them abt politics , instances they involve human lives, and dictatorship, ask them wht they feel abt Fidel Castro ask them wht they think abt the starvign kids in Africa, ask them wht ticks them off , ask them their fav moments in a day and why, ask them if they have a to do list befre they die... ask them questions that you would test their compassionate, intellectual, moral and wisdom
2006-08-23 04:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by haboba13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) ask them about their dreams
2) ask them about their passions
3) ask them to give you advice
When they give you advice they are telling you how they think and their belief systems. Once you see that you will know them pretty well.
2006-08-23 04:21:23 · answer #5 · answered by betterway 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you do when there's nothing to do?
What are your hobbies?
How do handle stressful situations?
What are your weaknesses in your opinion?
What do dream to do in the future?
What does ______ mean to you? fill in the blank. I was thinking HOPE when I came up with the question.
Who is your fav cartoon character?
Who is important to you? Your biggest influences?
2006-08-23 04:17:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
millions
and even then you cant be sure knowing that someone !
her behaviour is giving you more answers than the questions you ask
2006-08-23 04:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them how they feel about religion. That should open up some discussion.
2006-08-23 04:13:20 · answer #8 · answered by Kitia_98 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how they grew up? how somebody grew up, really reflects how they are, and how they act, why they are scared of certain things, why they are in/secure about them selves, why seeing certain things makes them laugh, why they love certain songs, or sports, why they are afraid to trust people, i noticed that most of the problems i have now, are caused by how i grew up,
2006-08-23 04:13:40 · answer #9 · answered by mami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two questions will alway show you someone's priorities in life - how do you spend your money? how do you spend your time?
2006-08-23 04:41:43 · answer #10 · answered by LivingDownSouth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋