2006-08-22 21:11:05 · 12 answers · asked by Sukyb 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Definately not weird it means that you know that your advances will be welcomed - there's nothing wrong with that. If you fall for someone who doesn't like you then that can feel quite uncomfortable. What do you mean by fall? These guys you fall for - you must like them in the first place or else you wouldnt spend enough time with them to fall for them. If you fall for someone who doesnt like you - then it cant be their personality that your falling for.
2006-08-22 21:20:22 · answer #1 · answered by Josef H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, u r not being weird. D way u r helps 2 maintain a secured relationship rather,irresepective of d person u fall 4 is a guy or a gal in d bargain..Be wot u wanna b.
2006-08-22 21:21:45 · answer #2 · answered by phoenix noir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with earplugz - just make sure you're falling for these guys because you actually like them, not just because they like you.
it doesn't matter who likes who first, the important thing is that you both feel the same. if you only go for guys who like you, to me it says you don't have a lot of confidence - as in, 'wow, this guy likes ME!'
it's always nice when someone pays attention to you, but make sure you're not going out with these guys ONLY because they like you. they could still be real a$$holes. and the other thing is, at some point you have to put your feelings on the line, otherwise you'll never grow as a person.
having said that, enjoy yourself and if you actually like these guys, then go for it - and be flattered cause lots of people would LOVE for the other person to come to them first!!
2006-08-23 08:48:31 · answer #3 · answered by stufetta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be the same when I was younger. Its flattering to be asked out, it boosts your ego. I had very low self esteem, so I would always date guys who liked me first. You date these guys because in a way your grateful that they've noticed you. It all comes back to low self esteem.
These days I do the go-getting lol
2006-08-24 06:14:52 · answer #4 · answered by sez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not weird. Maybe you're just afraid of being rejected if you fall for a guy first. Make sure though you fall for a guy because he's really what you like and want and not just because he falls for you.
2006-08-23 00:23:10 · answer #5 · answered by chocolatebunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
No, of course not.. I've had about 3 guys fall for me! I fancied them for a while,but I have a boyfriend now and he fell for ME. There's nothing wrong with it...live ur own life in ur own way and live it to the full! Best of luck x
2006-08-22 21:54:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if you only fall for them once they start buying you stuff, and treating you like a princess. Maybe you like being treated like that, rather than actually falling for the man for who he is. Did your relationships die when he stopped running after you? Find somebody you like first, then see what develops.
2006-08-22 21:18:35 · answer #7 · answered by Oracle Of Delphi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the same. I think we have to see the light at other end of the tonnel, dont' you agree?
2006-08-22 22:19:20 · answer #8 · answered by shortnotsilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no im a guy but i think most of if not all of my relationships have been like that
2006-08-22 21:13:10 · answer #9 · answered by krissydee9282 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're weird - I just think you're smarter than me
2006-08-25 10:16:50 · answer #10 · answered by Neva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋