i mean, pick one or the other.
it seriously pisses me off!
there are so many of them..
and i mean, im not like racist or prejudice or whatever, but come on.
2006-08-22 20:55:35 · 17 answers · asked by IDNTGIVASHT 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
they are greedy people the want both men and women.. and its just a trend for this generation of people
2006-08-22 20:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 9⤋
SHOW STOPPIN,
You have such a need for other people to be just so. You can be that way if you want, it's just that you're going to confuse yourself with that kind of thinking.
Some people have a line they draw for lots of things. What kind of car they drive, what kind of house they will live in, etc.
People that are bi haven't drawn the same line as far as sex goes for men or women, but choose to allow both access to that initmate side of them.
You said,"i mean, pick one or the other."
No. What are you going to do?
"it seriously pisses me off!" Good luck with that.
"there are so many of them.." How many is too many?
"and i mean, im not like racist or prejudice or whatever, but come on."
It does sound like you qualify for a control freak though. I mean, i'm not like racist or prejudice or whatever, but come on.
I think that everyone here took it pretty easy on you. I think that this has come up before, they've matured in the face of judgement. Now I think that it might be your turn.
2006-08-23 07:36:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some of us are just emotionally and/or sexually attracted to both sexes...some of us know from the start once we begin to mature, some of us it takes years to realize we feel that way, and it isn't a great priority.....although it can become a great desire. We do usually pick one or the other...in a LOVE relationship, and the majority of the time it is the opposite sex. (we desire a loving commited relationship and families too). To us though, it doesn't matter what sex the person we love is, just that we love them.
As for picking one or the other...we usually do...one relationship at a time, just like heterosexuals...and NO, bisexuality doesn't double our chances of finding true love either (which seems to be why bi/homophobic people usually seem to be JEALOUS of our ability to have relationships with both sexes...like we might be dwindling down the hetero supply or something)
Why should something that isn't any of your business piss you off? Should gays be pissed that bi's like the opposite sex? Should Bi's be pissed that you only like the opposite?
When did what you do become our business?.......and should "WE" waste our time and energy being pissed that YOU aren't Bi or Homosexual?
As another reader previously stated that most of us are in long term relationships...it's true. I've been with the same man for 17 years...but I still find females attractive (which BTW turns alot of men on) My honesty about my bisexuality allows us to have a deeper, mature, loving, sharing relationship...both emotionally AND sexually. In short, I have found a deeper, truer, honest, trusting, open-ness with the one I love...and we share in experiences together because we LOVE WITHOUT PREJUDICE.
If there are so many of "US", please let us all know WHERE you are located, we seem to be in short supply here!
2006-08-23 07:40:47 · answer #3 · answered by FrEaKoNaLeAsH 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi SHOW STOPPIN!! :o) I hope you're OK. I understand how you feel. It's not always easy to accept that someone ELSE might have thoughts and feelings that are contrary to our own. As a gay male - I often wondered [especially when I was young] how a guy could possibly be sexually attracted to a girl. I mean - yuck!! lol But obviously [and I'd have to be blind not to see it] there are guys who DO find girls sexually appealing. So I guess it's possible. Accepting that - it really wasn't that far a leap for me to also accept that there are some people who find both sexes attractive. [In a, 'I would like to have sex with them' - sort of way] It's important to understand [I think] that to be bi-sexual simply means that one is sexually attracted to both sexes. It does NOT mean - however - that they are necessarily HAVING sex with both sexes. In fact - most bi-sexual people [just like everyone else] end up being in a committed relationship with one person. [Either male or female] Craig!! :o)
2006-08-23 04:53:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nah, its who ur close with at that time actually. I am actually getting out of a long relationship with a girl; but now, a long time friend of mine and i have hit it off, didn't know either were bisexual and have been spending time around eachother for 3 years. The rate i was at, i don't think i would have found a woman, i just wasn't ready to start looking. I guess it just comes down to love not having any boundary. Fate decides im guessing.
2006-08-23 06:21:53 · answer #5 · answered by ra1n 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wah wah wah, if that pisses you off, then you get pissed off too easily, or you haven't been seriously wronged in your life, or you're just trying to annoy people with this question.
Yes, you are prejudiced, you're assuming that your way of life is superior, and you're judging others on theirs, based on your viewpoint.
Are you over it yet?
2006-08-23 04:12:08 · answer #6 · answered by 006 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it means that we like men and woman its not a choice i made hell if it was a choice i wouldnt even be bi i would be straight but i am attracted to men just as much as woman and u or any bible bashers cant change that go find something better to do
2006-08-23 04:05:20 · answer #7 · answered by BisexualBoi 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
what's the big deal? does it really affect your life if some people are bi sexual? some people are just attracted to both sexes. its just like you may be only attracted to men, while someone may be only attracted to women. you can't help what you feel
2006-08-23 04:25:31 · answer #8 · answered by . 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Becuase they just can. My advice to you is to build a bridge and get over it and focus your anger on rapists or child molesters or someone that does more evil, and leave US to live our lives as WE want to. Basically, what I'm saying is that it is none of your damn business! x
2006-08-23 06:02:56 · answer #9 · answered by Irish_bi_female 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seams that you are sexist... That you didn't say your not... So yeah its just there preference there attracted to both Girls and Guy's its not something to loose sleep over This Question.. Just live with it and Get your priorities resolved ...
2006-08-23 04:01:25 · answer #10 · answered by auzie.man 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
We never distinguish friends based on their gender then why to distinguish Sexual Desires based on Gender!
2006-08-23 03:58:41 · answer #11 · answered by strange_raga 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋