Yeah that's right. Clauses that protect me. Which means that if he decides to mess around with some hoochie, I GET PAID$$$$$$$$.
Also, being that this is being imposed on me and I am not the one initiating it, I think that he should pay for my lawyer also if he wants me to sign.
So basicly, If I cheat or decide that I am not inlove with him anymore and want a divorce, then I walk away with what I entered into the marraige with.
But, if he cheats, causes physical abuse to me, decides that he wants to leave because he claims he is not inlove anymore, I think the prenup should become void or I should still get somthing.
I can see if he wants to protect his assets, but I'm not gonna have it backfire on me.
So Yahoo people, what do you think? Can you come up with some drafts for me?
2006-08-22 20:14:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well you definetely wantr to come up with a sum of money that he will pay you if the reason the marrage ends is because he has an affair. There also should be an agrred amout paid if it is proven that he is abusing you in any way physically or mentally .. Of course in all these cases it has to be prove
Never sign anything without reading it first.
Protect yourself as well .... before you marry make sure he is the one you want to be with especially since he is making you sign a prenup ...
2006-08-22 20:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by melthule 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have the right to put whatever restriction or allowances whatsoever into any prenup. The only thing that can go wrong is he laughs at your items and refuses to sign, then winds up marrying the lady who was going to be your bridesmaid and goes 50-50 on a lottery ticket they buy at the gas station across the street from the wedding chapel in Vegas, and then the ticket will win, leaving you without a husband and the half of 125 million dollars the ticket won, after taxes.
2006-08-23 03:23:05 · answer #2 · answered by Just Ask 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way my fiance and I see it. If a person has to have a pre nup, pretty much they don't have enough trust in the up coming marriage to stay together.
A pre nup is a "just in case". When getting married, there is no such thing as " just in case" either you love the person and staying faithful or you are not. Period....
In a Divorce, what was his and what was her's before marriage goes back to rightful owner. What was bought is community property and either sold and split the profit or be reasonable adults and decide who gets what etc.
yet, sad that it breaks down to money and assets. Forgetting the married part.......
2006-08-23 04:08:48 · answer #3 · answered by Mutchkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your fiance is a spoiled sob who already knows that he is going to have affairs on you. You have rights too. What ever YOU want in that pre-nup. should be included. He sounds like a controlling person and just wants a jewel on his arm (you) without any problems if he decides to stray or do whatever else he wants to do. If he suggested the attorney let him pay for his but you get your own to look after your rights too. Otherwise you are better off without him. He is a jerk and you deserve better.
2006-08-23 03:28:39 · answer #4 · answered by Sharon N 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on the laws of the state but it still comes down to the fact that if you insert these clauses in the prenup he will be able to understand what is going on and I'm not so sure he will agree to your terms, since if you leave you will get paid but if he leaves....you still get paid. for you it is a win win situation but not in his case. an alternative would be for the two of you to sign a simple contract in which the general terms would be that he has to pay if you decide to divorce him in case of abuse, cheating,etc. the prenup has to be fair for him too, otherwise I don't think he'll sign it.
2006-08-23 03:25:32 · answer #5 · answered by Scooby 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like the both of you are trying to "clause" yourselves out of responsibility for this relationship. Instead of asking for us to write your clauses for you, what you should be doing is seeking some pre-marital counseling to ensure you will never need to worry about those clauses.
Or just don't get married in the first place.
P.s. I am sure it wasn't intentional, but your additional details make you sound like a first rate gold digger who just found her next meal ticket.
2006-08-23 03:18:34 · answer #6 · answered by Christopher B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With the kind of clauses you both want into the prenuptial agreement, you might as well abandon the idea or marrying each other.
2006-08-23 03:23:30 · answer #7 · answered by Bummerang 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how about something like this: since i don't love you, if finally i can't stand you anymore, either i cheat or want to leave, my lose, i won't take any money from you. but if i don't give you sex and you turned out ***** someone else, give me a million $. sounds like a wonderful marriage.
2006-08-23 03:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by Discovery 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you seek the advice of a lawyer since these types of laws vary from state to state.
2006-08-23 03:17:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
if he is caught cheating,then he must buy you a diamond ring no less than 3 million dollars.
if he catches you cheating,then you get one lump sum of money but no further payments.
fair enough.
2006-08-23 20:49:21 · answer #10 · answered by bumblebee_chola 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋