my hubby's best mate is driving me crazy. telling me to leave my husband who has recently stuffed up. i wont leave my husband i love him way to much and belive marriage is for life, ive tried asking friend to stop his crap but he denies his up to anything(i dont belive him) i dont wanna wreck there friendship as they have been friends long before i cam in the picture, but at the same time i dont feel he is a true friend not sure how to approach hubby or what to do about his friend
2006-08-22 20:13:36 · 8 answers · asked by mrs nevz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
His friend is not a real friend. Tell you husband before it is too late. He is apparently using their friendship to romance you, and that is not fair for you. He just is not a real friend, or a sneaky one that needs his rearend kicked. Just let your husband handle it, of course, the friend will say you are coming on to him. So it is best to get it out in the open. What about a 3 way conversation. Wow.... THAT WILL TEACH HIM.
2006-08-22 20:23:20 · answer #1 · answered by shardf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a solid and good relationship with your husband? If there´s love and trust, you should tell your husband about this awful situation, you deserve peace and respect, so don´t be afraid to talk to your husband. The comunication is the key. That man who is supposed to be the best friend of your hubby is not acting like a good pal.
2006-08-23 03:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by longo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, slow down! Im not sure how to read what you wrote here, but its really difficult to understand. What do you mean "recently stuffed up". Best advice I can give you is to talk to both of them face to face and find your way to the truth! If this is about your husband cheating on you, its smart to consider all possible sources for more information. Good Luck!
2006-08-23 03:20:12 · answer #3 · answered by runner_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET it go. TILL your husban ask you what you think. LOOKS like the friend is jealous of you. YOU have taken time a way from him.JUST play a long and let the so called friend hang his self. BUT if he is saying things, do get a tape recorder or a video tape if him. SOME times you can record what people do through your cell phone.
2006-08-23 03:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let his friend feel the truth about your concern and love for your husband. tell your husband about this annoying friend of him
2006-08-23 03:18:39 · answer #5 · answered by desiree gersaniba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell ur husband then he can deal with it from there it is up 2 him if he still wants 2 b friends with a jerk lyk that
2006-08-23 04:18:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does not sound like a friend of your husband,sounds more like a dog
2006-08-23 03:16:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not a true freind if he is trying to split up your realationship
2006-08-23 03:19:24 · answer #8 · answered by little one 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋