how come the guy im hookin up with almost passed out after a handjob & got extremely distand and unaffectionate after? did his orgasm cause this?
2006-08-22 20:11:25 · 12 answers · asked by yeah_baby90 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
we are only hookup buddies...& its not like im not getting any. we don't have sex tho & all the other times he was affecionate afterwards but this time i like paralyzed him & he almost passed out...wat can i say im talented haha ;)
2006-08-22 20:34:59 · update #1
Maybe he's embarrased.
The other option would be he's an asshole and this was a learning experience for you. Don't stick around for more!
2006-08-22 20:17:26 · answer #1 · answered by me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are very good at what you do. I am sure 100 % that you gave him a great hand job. The only thing you need to learn is men after a wonderful orgasm, are satisfied and could careless about the his partner unless he completely understands all the women's needs.
I don't see that you are asking him to be affectionate and help you achieve orgasm but it seems to me you are asking if you did a great hand job, that nearly made him pass out. And by the sound of it you did. Congratulations he is a lucky man, or boy.
After that you great hand job don't be surprised if he just doesn't care any more as he will not. As the urge is gone and his strength and horniness has been depleted. So if you are looking for some attention you better have him give it to you first then you can give him the great hand job.
2006-08-22 21:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by NIck N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you would like to identify first your reasons for hooking up with this guy. Are you looking for companionship? Are you searching for a boyfriend material? Someone you'd like to spend time with for a long time? Or is your desire purely motivated by your carnal desires?
It was only a handjob therefore the guy couldn't really pass out that fast.
Second, the fact that he distanced himself from you and became unaffectionate after could be the effect of an underlying problem that he's not mentioning to you.
This makes me think if you've been hooking up with him for a long time because you've observed specific emotional inconsistencies with the guy.
Is it safe to assume that you have been going out with him for a long time already?
If you are, and given the changes, it wouldn't hurt if you initiate the conversation on changes you observed. Some guys will not volunteer any information relating to the emotions as they don't feel comfortable with it.
you on the other hand, has the power to talk him into it and find out what caused those changes. Only then you will be able to determine your next actions that might prolong your relationship with him. If it is indeed a relationship resulting from "hooking up" with him.
2006-08-22 20:19:21 · answer #3 · answered by Mike_Cruiser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, alot of men are distand and unaffectionate.As long has they get what they want,They don't care if they leave you hanging.You need to unhook yourself from this jerk and find a guy who will treat you with, respect like you deserve to be treated. Someone who won't leave you hanging,so you can enjoy either oral sex of intercourse.It's great when both of you can enjoy sex and get it off together.Enjoy life why you can.
Clowmy
2006-08-22 20:27:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For men the orgasm is the moment of truth, if a guy is not into a girl, once he orgams, if he's not into a girl, he doesn't want anything to do with her, basically, the guy ain't into you
2006-08-22 20:14:53 · answer #5 · answered by martin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, he was just looking to get a release and probably wasnt really interested in you. find a better guy or better yet stop hooking up and giving the ol HJ.
2006-08-22 20:19:31 · answer #6 · answered by Craig M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i know is his orgasm probably did have something to do with him almost passing out but it shouldnt have anything to do with him not being affectionate afterwards
2006-08-22 20:16:04 · answer #7 · answered by Sean S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he was not feeling it right from the hand job. men are insensitive jerks. get a better guy in bed.
2006-08-22 20:35:25 · answer #8 · answered by miss_nads 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lost of energy after an ultimately good feeling
2006-08-22 20:14:56 · answer #9 · answered by The Punisher 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He had something real good and all the blood rushed to his penis and everything was gone after that.
2006-08-22 21:18:41 · answer #10 · answered by gentsocar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋