they will apologize when you confront them and inform them how offended you had been with the things they say and the things they do, but will still continue to do the same things even though they know you would be offended again. it's like they are trying your patience!
what is the best way to do with these kinds of people?
how to get rid of them?
2006-08-22 20:01:35 · 29 answers · asked by the awakening 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Dont pay any attention to what they say.
If you answer them they will be more fascinated and will make more troubles for you.
So just dont care about them, and they will automatically take their way.
2006-08-28 20:59:10 · answer #1 · answered by Ω Nookey™ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People who offend others are weak. They feel powerful when they offend other people, if you confront like you said they would apologize which they do really feel horrible. Its a trait in them to manifest in others. The best way is to ignore them. and put them out of ur 'circle of concern' rather than circle of influence. Because they cant behave well socially so you really cant be concerened about them all the time otherwise it will kill you.
Just learn to ignore them, they will look for someone else to offend.
2006-08-23 03:08:12 · answer #2 · answered by Amber G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fight back big time. Make sure it's somewhere in public, at a very frequent place. Prepare some strong arguments/nasty facts about the opponent. The humiliation he/she encounters then will be effective for a while. And if this person still continues with harassing you afterward, stop being "friends" with him/her.
You should definitely talk about it, not hold it inside, this matter is close to bulling. Don't be afraid to ask for help and protection from someone else, who's older, tougher, stronger, scarier, more serious.
2006-08-30 08:27:32 · answer #3 · answered by Petra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The old saying "patience is a virtue" actually has a lot of truth to it. If someone is tormenting you, chances are they are tormenting other people too. Eventually, this person will alienate most of the people around them and find themselves with no friends. Certainly, no one will trust them.
Best advice, hard as it may seem to be, is to do your best to ignore them. Eventually they will go away. It may seem like this will last forever, but I assure you it will not. In the meantime, you take the moral high ground and you will be well served.
Good luck.
2006-08-23 07:06:38 · answer #4 · answered by exbuilder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stare at them. Make your face a total blank, don't frown or smile, don't say anything, just sit there and stare for as long as you can. They may ask you questions or make rude comments, don't move, don't talk, just look at them. Let your eyes say everything that's on your mind but don't speak. And then just get up and walk away, slowly, calmly without so much as a backward glance. Does that creep you out? Imagine how it will make them feel. They'll have no idea what you're thinking but maybe they'll think twice before speaking to you. Try it. It also works on small children that are misbehaving.
2006-08-29 11:04:18 · answer #5 · answered by lovelee1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just mention that you are upset with the way they treat you, and that you've continually tried to explain your feelings. If they don't get the point and shape up, then just stop seeing them.
Is this a friend, or maybe a co-worker? If it's a friend, I'd just blow them off if they don't stop treating you badly. As far as anyone else is concerned, just mention that you'd prefer to keep your association with them at arm's length, and don't let them bother you. Remember--their words can only offend you if you let it.
2006-08-23 03:05:54 · answer #6 · answered by sara_busa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like my mother-in-law...but as I said before- she isn't very educated...and so she doesn't know any better. My strategy is to hang out with her only when absolutely necessary. She lives next door in a studio. No kidding, but we are actually all smiles when we see each other....we accept each other from a distance. Yes, you can be distant to someone who lives next door....if being in the same room with that person isn't very healthy for you. We lived together for almost two years at one point...I thought I was gonna go nuts...but I survived. I will never let her ignorance get to me again!!!
So,....just distance yourself emotionally...do not ask for help...not for advice...not for money...not for anything. They will get the message that you don't want to be close to them.
2006-08-23 03:18:39 · answer #7 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you slap them, punch them, give them a good shouting about how you dont like it, when your boss or whoever is in charge comes around, you start crying and say that whoever offended you. or the better way my mom always says. become the best you can be, then when you're five years older, get this guy's address, rent a limo, and come by. they'll really stop them. it worked with me and the snottiest girl ive ever seen.
2006-08-23 03:07:06 · answer #8 · answered by Manga freak 101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't get rid of them...there are people like that all over the world. You simply just don't talk to them or just ignore it because you know it's crap anyways. Who cares what they say, everyone have a mouth and they say whatever they want.
2006-08-23 03:05:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can offend you unless you allow it to happen. Walk away both physically and emotionally. Be kind to yourself and don't give your energy to those who refuse to treat you with respect. It's your right as a human being to be treated decently.
2006-08-28 09:08:34 · answer #10 · answered by Carolanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just turn your back and ignore them. They will soon realize you are not a fool anymore and have to time to waste with them. Then move on to something else as if they were not there at all.
2006-08-23 03:05:33 · answer #11 · answered by montralia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋