U love today, marry tomorrow, get divorced the day after. How can this be called true love ? I say, love is just what u like whether it is a human being or may be a car. Love can come even after marriage - if both the partners like each other. SERIOUS ANSWERS PLEASE.
2006-08-22 19:52:29 · 30 answers · asked by 50+Brat 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i too feel that it is all nonsense
2006-08-22 19:56:11 · answer #1 · answered by MADDY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not agree with you at all. I have found my "true love" even though I did not believe in it before either. It is not like any other crush you might feel on someone for a while, when you then convince yourself you "love" them truly...When you meet your true love, you will notice, it makes all your live worth living.
I met my soulmate not very long ago, it was barely 4 months ago, and yet I know he's the one for me and we are getting married with the blessings of his family very soon.
Of course love can come after marriage, and I am a person who wuld favour arranged marriages as well, but I believe if a couple meets and falls in love, when everything fits, one should not break up their relationship because of an arranged marriage. Of course, just as in every relationship there are ups and downs, but if both of them can tackle them, they will grow even closer.
We are currently having some difficulties wth my soon-to-be husband, not because of either of us, but because stupid authorities problem. Theses difficulties have been predicted to us, and we will come out bonded even stronger than before...
I wish you all the best in your search for your life- and soulmate, believe me, once you've met her you will never again doubt true love's existence
2006-08-22 20:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not a myth. But just that it may not be a continous thing. You surely may momentarily hate the person you love the most. But you can find out whether its true love if the love always succeeds hate and is more in comparison to everything else. Its just a matter of the time, the moment and the persons involved.
2006-08-22 19:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by Yours Truly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. i met my future partner at the office. We were introduced as I was looking for a friend to share my love of classical music, Gilbert and Sullivan and gardening. We went out to concerts and afterwards would share a good night kiss. These became more serious , Eventually Gwen and I had a long talk on whether to remain friends or continue as we seemed to be going. After 3 years , we purchased a house and began living together. We thought we lived a quietly as church mice but her family became cruel and spiteful. Her serenity in the face of this was my strength. At the office we did not use the lunch room because of the number of smokers. On the way back one day a smart young thing shrilled "Oh here come the SPINSTERS, couldn't get a man to save themselves!" Gwen smiled at me and asked "Well, fellow spinster, Are we as one?" No reply was needed.
After years our office supervisor told the staff that all those entitled to long leave must take it. We could not take the leave together so Gwen told me to take mine as she was "feeling tired".
We planned the trip together. I was told last thing to take lots of lovely photographs.
I had a wonderful time and returned home too learn that Gwenneth had passed away with a virulent cancer. I will not go into details of what her vile family did, Sufficient to say that I suffered severe depression. Thanks to my brother I sought treatment. Gwen, always in my heart and mind.
Pray that I can someday forgive them. Rose P.
2006-08-22 20:29:45 · answer #4 · answered by rose p 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cudnt guess y u askd this qtn but then know one thing there is no life without a relation n love is one such bond, u might have come across so many relations but just sit bak n think when is that u feel more happy when ur wth ur friends home r elsewhere.if u can find this out ul defnitely answr your own qtn
love is basic emotion which binds al of us there is nothing calld false love
love is true,it can never b wrong if u feel sumone has false love then it was never love
dont b very pessimistic its ok if u r cheated sumtimes then ul know the rite thing
ok all d best
2006-08-23 00:15:00 · answer #5 · answered by shan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is!!!!I'm still with the love of my life and i love him even more every day. I've known him for almost 10yrs now and of that 10 yrs we have been married for 4 yrs. For me true love is loving some one completely and knowing 100% that he /she loves u back. I know for a fact with out a doubt that my husband loves me, n that he knows i love him. Once u build that foundation in a relation ship with love and trust, then every thing falls into place. Also don't think that true love is a bed of roses.....its not!!!! Love is compromise, sacrifice, trust,loyalty. I believe that there is some one for every one!!!!!I hope that in time to come u too will find that special one and look back on this day and smile.
2006-08-22 20:37:51 · answer #6 · answered by reality7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there is true love. I think the problem with a lot of people is they fall in love, get married, and then think it's all over when it isn't like it was when they first met and were dating. Love changes. You couldn't possibly continue to function if you're still feeling like you do when you first fall in love. (trouble eating, sleeping, and focusing). But if you stick with it, that feeling periodically makes a short come back, and spices things up again.
2006-08-22 20:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by mocha5isfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The adage, 'and they lived happily ever after' is restricted to fiction and films, in reality life is never such a fairy tale. "Love is unconditional". That's what I think and believe in.
Yes, that is right. Most of the people have a twisted understanding of "love". In fact they do not know what love actually is. I fell in love with a girl too; it’s nearing 5 years now. Well, unfortunately she never responded in a favorably way when I expressed my love towards her. It was definitely heart breaking, there were nights and days with tears rolling down. I lost all interest in things that once used to amuse me. I'd thought I'd grow old with her when I first met her. I still wish she were by my side even after all these years and want to grow old with her only. The world says that I have to move on in life and not be stuck back in the past. I don't mind at all, even if I don't get to spend the rest of this life with her...I'd still prefer to love her and continue to be madly in love with her. I am reaching a stage where love is going to be unconditional. I always used to expect something from her; I mean some form of affection from her end. But then how will that be unconditional when I expect something in return?!
In spite of the fact that she is not going to be mine, I am still happy with the thought that I loved someone madly, truly and deeply in this lifetime. To know her, love her and to be able to share this world with her is the most fascinating experience I ever had. I will always cherish the moments I spent with her. Now I wish that she lives a happy life with someone of her choice.
2006-08-22 23:46:13 · answer #8 · answered by Chief of sinners 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no more somthing like A True Love in this life.
Except the love of Romeo for Julliet,Titanic Love,and ancient love, the rest are just a question !
Only True love exist between old couples that you see.
2006-08-22 22:27:24 · answer #9 · answered by princessFiona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody is serious about true love and serious relationship.
True love and relationship is very rare.
But to my fortune, I had such a wife who showed her true love and I reciprocated the same 100%.
We were made for each other.
But unfortunately she is no more.
Now I know what is living alone without a best wife and companion.
This happens very rarely in ones life.
2006-08-22 21:19:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think true love exists. It exists when you really look for it. True love is those two kids who grew up next door to each other and knew each other all their lives start going out in high school, and stay together because they are so connected and comfterble with each other and care about each other like family. True love is when those two kids grow up, get married, and live like they did when they were just kids- young, and truly in love.
2006-08-22 19:57:12 · answer #11 · answered by Rachel U 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋