well, i moved away knowing that i would be back in 2 years. I have a boyfriend and 2 best friends who both have crushes on him. I just found out that both girls asked him out!!! and now he is sort of ignoring me, and acting like we are "just friends" over e-mail about a month ago. My friends and him wont even e-mail me anymore!!!!! i don't want to hate them over a boy, and they are my best friends, but...how do i cope??? and why are they all acting like this? please help me!!!
2006-08-22 19:45:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would guess that you are young. These people aren't your friends. I read somewhere that by the time you are 30 you should have rid yourself of all your toxic "friends". Look at it as a good time to start cleaning house.
2006-08-22 19:48:06 · answer #1 · answered by sunflowers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cats away... mice WILL play!....
You left for a reason, give that reason your all as you can not turn back time and put pieces together... so make what your doing the reason for living and worth the time away
and
when you return in 2 years, you will see the reason's for jealousy, envy and worry did not really exist as it was an event that happend in the past. It's like stepping back into a room that hadn't been cleaned in 2 years, it's the same but everything is covered in dust and no longer draws you in as it did. Now, 2 years later, in steps the new you, a better you and they? What ever happend to them?... probably not that much.
YOU have made a choice, a choice you felt compelled to do, possibly have to do and wanted to do? You should follow through with that comitment, don't you agree?
Run, and don't look back.
Good luck.
2006-08-22 20:01:28 · answer #2 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like this...if it is true that either one of these girls have hooked up with a man that they both knew full well was with you, they have made a mistake. And if your boyfriend decided to go after either of those girls knowing full well he was with you, he has made a mistake. The true decision lies in this one single question: Do you trust someone who has betrayed you? The answer to that is no. Therefore you cope simply by ending both friendships and relationship. You can move on from that one spot in time simply by no longer acknowledging that they exist.....or, in the true manor of a friend scorned...act nice and sweet. Remember this one line: Smile. It makes people wonder what you're up to.
2006-08-22 23:12:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider this: friends don't bail on you over a lay. Also, long distance relationships are normally a very poor idea. If your "boyfriend" is ignoring you, take that as a guarantee that he's getting it on with one if not both of your "friends". As far as how you cope with this, I would suggest chalking the whole thing up to experience and moving on with things, but that's often easier said than done.
2006-08-22 19:49:12 · answer #4 · answered by knieveltech 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is kind of a sticky situation...
well, if i was in your position i'd probably stop by your friends' houses sometime to talk to them face-to-face without an distractions of other convos, emails etc. i think you should also talk to your boyfriend and ask him what's going on and let him know that you are feeling extremely upset considering the fact your two best friends asked him out and now your relationship just isnt the same! good luck!
2006-08-22 19:49:09 · answer #5 · answered by fanta chic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Doesn't need that kind of friends. You need best friend like me., The love can't be a friendship and Friendship can't be love.
Friendship has a shoulder to cries and sorrows., it gives solutions to if you had a tears lend my shoulder
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2006-08-22 19:46:24 · answer #6 · answered by JJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 years seems a long time and people change .....don't worry your boyfriend obviovsly got over you....dont waste your time with friends like this because they are not your best friends ..best friends don't behave like this ..........move on .....your friends were only using you.........(you sound like a really nice person and I dont think you will have any trouble finding friends........
2006-08-22 19:54:00 · answer #7 · answered by amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they were just taking advantage of you being gone sit him down and talk to him if he really likes you e will listen and be your boyfriend again if not there are more boys in the world e-mail me @ iwilleattheworld@yahoo.com and tell me what you think of what i told you
2006-08-22 19:48:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur frnds must hav qualities better than u for which ur boy frnd got interest over them
but u must not luv such a man who can change his choice/love with more better options
u must hav a better selection of a good human being
2006-08-22 19:49:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can very well understand Ur feeling my advice 2 u is DAT leave them all for sometime take a break from them let them realize ur value ur frendship i hope this brings peace to u.
2006-08-22 19:53:29 · answer #10 · answered by air_zara19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋