I went to my friend's place, and her mum told me off for wearing a spagetti strap navy singlet top with no bra. You can't hide bra straps under a spagetti strap. I am a 34B, so can go comfortably without a bra when I choose (I think). My friend is a D so has to wear one.
2006-08-22 19:37:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
I think as long as you can't see thru the shirt it is ok. Maybe the Mom did that because she doesn't want her daughter to think its ok.
2006-08-27 00:45:49 · answer #1 · answered by STrap 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best bra for those tops are the strapless kind. If you're 34 B you should wear a bra because it shows when you don't (even if you don't think so) since you need the support or you'll end up with backackes unnecessarily. Only 34 A can get away with no bra not you.
2006-08-22 20:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people consider it to be disrepectful to ditch the bra. They do make those tops with built in bras or a little extra material in that area but thats nor here or there. If you feel comfortable without a bra then forget what what her 'mommy' says. If you don't want to hear it I suggest wearing one when you go over her house but your built where it doesn't look bad so its fine.
2006-08-22 19:45:10 · answer #3 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it's not wrong...around people of the same age. if you know you are going to end up meeting an older person (ie: parents) it's always best to avoid confrontation and just be proper. if you're headed to the beach then just wear a jacket over when you're at your friend's house and whip it off after you leave. simple. anyway, bra straps that show aren't so bad.
2006-08-22 19:47:20 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Director 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she felt like she had to look at your boobs? I can't go without a bra because I am a bit bigger, but it has never bothered me if someone else does unless they are in need of some serious support. I think it's fine that you wear it, as long as it looks ok. But be careful, gravity will take its course eventually.
2006-08-22 19:47:32 · answer #5 · answered by HeavenLee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all! Your boobs are a part of your body, no one else's, and it's your choice - and right - to decide how and when they should be shown. I'm 34C (21 years old) and frequently have gone out dressed in similar fashion for years. My parents were a bit uptight about it at first but finally allowed me to make my own decisions on what parts of my body I'd allow to be seen.
I don't believe that nudity (or going without a bra whether your boobs can be seen or not) is indecent by itself, as long as it's not an inappropriate situation (like going to church or something similar).
Your style of dress was totally appropriate...don't worry about it. Older women seem to get upset when young girls and women show our bodies in ways that they disapprove of...that, unfortunately, is their problem, and we can't start to make it ours.
2006-08-24 05:44:17 · answer #6 · answered by nudie chick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you could placed on silver eye shadow to carry out the band on the right of the gown. or you could continuously do a smokey eye seem. Or both? For lips i'd advise a impartial colour, fantastic-ish pink, or a pink.
2016-12-01 01:17:13 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young lady you have the right size to wear exactly what you were wearing. Be proud of yourself, don't worry about what other people say or think.
2006-08-22 19:42:59 · answer #8 · answered by Fitforlife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as u feel comfortable and u dont look like a tramp wear what u want to.
2006-08-22 19:50:27 · answer #9 · answered by majorcavalry 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong at all with going out braless. I encourage you & your friend to do it together next time.
2006-08-27 17:19:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋