ok i am mos def imma do it soon but im like freaked i dont wanna leave my solution accidently and i have no idea what to do i know i sound like a dumbass but its true its not like ive been begging her the sex thing came up because weve been really close but yea anyway what should i do?? im 16 by the way
2006-08-22 19:34:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
I think you should wait. Can you handle the responsibilities if she gets accidentally pregnant? There is no 100% safe method of contraception, there's always a risk so do you want to consider being a father now? If you're freaked abotut placing your penis in her vagina, imagine what will happen when you find out that that soon there is a baby's head coming out of there! Relax and wait till you're a bit more grown up, don't do it just because everyone else is doing it. There are other ways to express love and be close to someone than sex itself.
2006-08-22 19:51:56 · answer #1 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, what does "leave my solution" mean?
I know that everyone is telling you that people your age are having sex all over the place, but if you don't feel you're ready for it, why do it? Frankly, the girl doesn't sound all that hot to do it either. If it's something that "just came up" why not let it cool down and wait for the timing and the person that you really want to be with?
This is so bogus and, on top of that, you won't feel better about yourself after wards either.
2006-08-23 02:50:22 · answer #2 · answered by Ellen J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're not quite ready or else you wouldn't be so nervous. You're no dumbass for thinking about it before it happens. BUT, if you do go ahead with it, use protection. Enjoy your youth without making any babies or else you will have to grow up too fast and the fun will end quickly. Plus, pregnancy is the least of your worries; you don't want to catch anything that could kill you.
You're smarter than you think. Could you talk to your father or grandfather or uncle about it?
Or even your mom. Good luck.
2006-08-23 02:42:08 · answer #3 · answered by GiGi C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hope the girl was sixteen or better. go to the nearest er if youhave insurance or can pay out of pocket.
2006-08-23 02:41:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋