I met up with an old male friend of mine and things were great! He finally told me that he liked me so I am just waiting for the part where he asks me out but no! He says he has to see if I am gf material then says he doesn't want to be with me because he can't "hit me with his mule"(sex) I am a virgin so its something real sacred to my heart what should I do?
2006-08-22 19:26:52 · 20 answers · asked by monkykay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Move on, find a new guy you sound like you have a lot to offer and if he can't see that then too bad.
2006-08-30 16:02:29 · answer #1 · answered by Phuong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be patient. If its gonna work out, it will. Remember, when you rush things, things can get all twisted up, and the turn out may not be what you really want. Play a little hard to get. A little "Unavailable". He'll come beatin down you door after a few weeks.
Since you've been friends for so long though, there will end up being a conversation concerning feelings. In particular, you want to ensure your on "The same page..." Gudluk!~!!
2006-08-22 19:31:55 · answer #2 · answered by diaz276 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"hit you with his mule"? He probably has a shetland pony. Sweetie, if a guy doesn't know if he wants to be with you or not because you're still a virgin, drop him like a hot potatoe. He's not worth it, I actually want to slap this kid right now.
2006-08-22 19:32:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he respects you to much and knows what his intentions cold lead him to. Take is as a compliment of a friend that really appreciates and respects you!
P.S. Sometimes, they save the best for last!
2006-08-29 10:59:42 · answer #4 · answered by pattiof 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to buzz off when you are ready it will be the time you don't need someone that will make you give up something that important for a possible chance of being with him....find someone who cares for you and not for sex...good luck
2006-08-28 09:17:13 · answer #5 · answered by ??? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a great guy then sorry but if he won't get with you because he can't have sex with you then screw him!You should have sex when you want to not because you have to to be with this man!!!!!!!!
2006-08-30 14:27:51 · answer #6 · answered by Angelica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
k if he just wants to have sex with you- OBVIOUSLY he's not worth it at all. And gf material?? w/e!!! if he likes you then obviously you are... lol he just wants you in a sexual way
2006-08-22 19:29:36 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel U 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go out with him if you value your virginity. it is better to lose him than your virginity if you are not planning to marry him. be careful.
2006-08-30 10:58:30 · answer #8 · answered by trillionaire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could ask him out however men usually assume if a woman asks then it means sex.
2006-08-26 13:05:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump his *** seems like all he wants is one thing..don't waste your time or your virginity on the asshole
2006-08-29 06:56:34 · answer #10 · answered by twinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋