2006-08-22 18:43:37 · 10 answers · asked by mike 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
BOSS is always RIGHT. So accept her verdict.
2006-08-22 18:45:55 · answer #1 · answered by a j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have to give her time to think things through. It's one big decision moving to another place. You must understand your girl might be considering a lot of things, like her work, her family and friends, and even her lufestyle. It may sound selfish, but she may be used of her current setup and moving to another place is one BIG change that she is scared to take.
Just talk her though it. Explain to her what are your plans for your future. It's a risk that the two of you must take if she wants to make your relationship work. Goodluck!!
2006-08-23 02:31:42 · answer #2 · answered by jen_good girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she doesn't want to move in with you, you have to respect her feelings. She may have good things going for her in the place she is living now, and maybe she just doesn't want to leave her family and friends. I also think, that if she really actually wanted to be with you, she would go. So maybe you guys should think over your relationship.
2006-08-23 01:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can do. Move to your new city and move on with your life.
2006-08-23 01:47:00 · answer #4 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide: which has priority, moving to a new city, or your relationship? If she does not want to move, that is her right to choose, and you have to respect that.
2006-08-23 01:48:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the reasons involved. Maybe she won't take it seriously unless you want to get married first? Where are you going? What's in it for her? What's in it for you if you leave?
I have seen men held back from acheiving their best by women who don't really support them, if this could be the case, move on.
2006-08-23 01:50:13 · answer #6 · answered by starspangledgirl77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get one in the city?
2006-08-23 01:48:32 · answer #7 · answered by Veevee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her be. You can't force her to give up everything she has. Not everyone likes moving
2006-08-23 01:47:33 · answer #8 · answered by Tigris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant put your life on hold for a girl. move. =[ some things are tough but you gotta do it
2006-08-23 01:47:07 · answer #9 · answered by Shelby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she doesn't have a choice
Don't move
Say bye bye
Ask her why not
2006-08-23 01:47:56 · answer #10 · answered by amieoday 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋