Why do certain types of women try and provoke men into beating them.?

Question

This does not apply for Asian women from Asia because they tend to be very quiet and docile. Only when they get truly fed up with your actions will they make an angry outburst.

I've noticed that White, Black and Hispanic women will try and press on certain triggers of men by Insulting his mother or saying something that she knows will trigger a violent response.

I.e. - I'm gonna leave you and take the baby with me !
- I'm gonna cut your d*ck off if you are cheating...
- Your not half the man _____ was....
- Your pathetic and your d*ck is small...
- You haven't satisfied me in ____ years

Then they get their asses kicked up and down the house.
WHY PROVOKE SOMEONE BIGGER AND STRONGER THAN YOU?

Answer 1

They're not provoking a fight. They're talking **** just like men do when they call them "fat whores" and such. If you haven't said anything like that, that doesn't mean beat their ***. They've probably been in a relationship that handled conflict like that or grew up in a home like that. Or they're just ******* crazy. Remember: No beat the female, no matter how crazy. If they hit you, answer back with the same exact force to the exact same location. Unless they punch you in the face, body slam that biatch.

Answer 2

First, you apparently hang out with some very "lovely" and "classy" women, don't you? Whoever these "elegant" and "eloquent" "ladies" are, they aren't trying to provoke you into hitting them. They're trying to find something to say that will somehow threaten your masculinity. There's a difference.

If you were a grown up (for starters you wouldn't be with these vulgar-speaking individuals, but I digress....) it wouldn't matter what someone said. If someone says something stupid or insulting you can just ignore it and write it off as ridiculous.

You can't handle someone's verbal attacks on you. My goodness....those remarks about your not being half the man someone else is were right!!

These women probably gave you the benefit of the doubt and thought they could fight with you verbally (as people often do) without being beaten up. They overestimated your grown-up-ness and your decency as a man. You showed them they had overestimated what a grown-up you must be; so now they know what they were dealing with.

You should be flattered that these women gave you credit for being a grown-up and being decent and being able to take a few rotten words being thrown at you. So now, they're kind of like soldiers who went into a bad area and came out with some some battle wounds; but they should feel proud that - when all is said and done - they managed to get the better of you to the point where now you have a record of cowardly behavior.

Answer 3

They don't provoke and they don't deserve beating. It is exclusively the decision of violent man and it is never her fault. Concerning his decision to beat her, It depends on his psycho-pathological structure what he will recognize as provocation. A normal person will react on the things you listed by trying to solve the problem, talk with her , or just leave or divorce if their relationship does not work. Women are also experiencing such a harassment you listed, but they can just bear it and can hardly dare do physically attack him.

Concerning Asian women, these are not only them who are quiet and docile, but their men too. Their culture in general is different than ours, more quiet, more delicate and more spiritual.

Answer 4

I don't think it's typical of most women to say the things you've quoted unless they are feeling cornered and scared... those sentences are words of a person trying to take a little of the power back because they've been getting beat up, whether physically or mentally.

I read your other questions and answers... it's interesting how you consistently capitalize the words "white" and "black." You seem really determined to make distinctions between colors and genders. I'm no psychologist, but you sound like you're confused about your own identity, and therefore feel threatened... common characteristics of an abuser.

Please, please get help. It's never too late. It may be difficult to accept and admit, but your life in a year will be eons better than if you don't.

God did create you for a purpose, and wants to see you become the man He created you to be. So He will help you.

Answer 5

Excuse Me! As a survivor of domestic violence I can tell you that the man does not need a comment from a women to hit. The only trigger he needed was to get up in a bad mood.
You need to do some more research on a subject be for you throw out stupid questions.

Answer 6

Only stupid trashy women say crap like that. If the guy is such a jerk, walk away, but the same goes for guys. If she's a trashy foul-mouthed whore, just walk away.

If ever you feel the need to hit or beat a woman, or a trashy whore, just walk away. There's nothing to prove, if you are really a man. Unless you are just as bad, walk away.

Answer 7

"WHY PROVOKE SOMEONE BIGGER AND STRONGER THAN YOU?"
~you said that~

The abuser is responsible for his violence, not his victim.

How much stronger are you if you can not handle her reaction to something you did?
How much stronger are you if you can't handle the fact that she is a human with her Own emotions and mind,not a toy the Creator made for man?
How strong are you that you can't even handle your Own reactions?
How strong are you that you can not say, "I see your mad, but I want to understand why, not hear threats and crazy talk. Come talk to me when your calmer" then Leave?

And how amazingly silly do you think some women think of someone who says All of anything acts the exact same way?


If you REALLY want to know, follow the link and read the page. It will help you understand things. That is if you were really looking for an education in this matter, not just passively bragging.

http://womenscenter.virginia.edu/sdvs/domestic/myths.htm

Answer 8

First things first, THEY DONT, its just a pathetic man that responds that way.

What is happening is that the man is emotionally retarded, and the woman is frustrated by this.
The emotionaly more mature woman will not be getting proper responses and will start increasing thier input simply to get any response at all.
The man, in the mean time, will be cowering further and further into his emotional shell.

Answer 9

It is never acceptable for a man to hit a woman no matter what the provocation. End of story

Answer 10

you need to look at the underlying issue. these can be just surface comments. look to find out what is really making these women unhappy and/or angry. it could be something in their relationship or it could be something from their pasts...or it could be just a relationship that needs to end.