in a true relationship, the past shouldnt count right?
so if you looked ugly before, but look okay now, should your bf or husband be wierded out by you? if you werent such a cuute bebe, shoud that matter?
2006-08-22 18:12:54 · 5 answers · asked by Steffanie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
thanks for the answers, guys! i so appreciate them
2006-08-22 19:00:01 · update #1
btw, I C Y U R, i posted your poem on my wall.
<3
2006-08-22 19:00:43 · update #2
THE MOST BEAUTIFUL CREATURES WERE UGLY BABIES...IE SWANS FROM DUCKLINGS, IF THE LOVE IS UNCONDITIONAL,AND SINCERE,NO, THE PAST IS THE PAST, MARRIAGE , WISDOM,MATURITY, WIPES OUT THE DATING PAST.
2006-08-22 22:09:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a pretty sh*t relationship you are talking about if it is based on ‘looks’… past or present!!!
True beauty comes from within… It is what you ‘feel’ rather than see.
I will share one of my poems with you…
In the 'heart' of the beholder...
'Beauty' they say 'is in the eyes of the beholder',
and how 'beauty is only skin deep'!
'Looks' they say 'can be deceiving'...
so 'never judge a book by its cover!'
I speak of a 'beauty' which comes deep from within,
and touches the very core of the heart.
It is beauty you feel, rather than see,
and it is felt from the 'heart'... not the hands!
Love and compassion...
sincerity and kindness...
it is these which determine the true worth of man,
for without them, we are just 'walking meat'!
To look in a mirror with only our eyes,
is to hide ourselves from our soul!
See not with the eyes, unless to be blind,
of the 'true beauty' which lays within!
To judge ourselves by only our looks,
is to fail in the eyes of God...
for He will judge us, not by our looks,
but by the 'emotions' we have learnt to feel!
Search deep in your heart for a beauty,
which can be felt by those who are blind...
for even the blind have their beauty,
and it is there for us all to feel!
2006-08-23 01:40:07 · answer #2 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, the past is the past. It shouldn't matter at all.
2006-08-23 01:16:31 · answer #3 · answered by sexyladyinak 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course not - if somebody really loves you they'll think it's adorable that you used to be a big dork or whatever. :)
2006-08-23 01:16:04 · answer #4 · answered by orionsgirl76 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think it should matter at all.
2006-08-23 01:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by Isabelia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋