Is it that they don't make the bathroom smelly? Or is it something more? Perhaps they don't have communication issues when you two disagree. Or maybe they get along better with the other people important in your life than your ex's.
2006-08-22 18:03:41 · 10 answers · asked by rrr ttt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He has less baggage than my ex's. Meaning he doesn't have emotional issues. He's less jealous, more considerate. He's just awesome.
2006-08-22 18:04:58 · answer #1 · answered by paoakalani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We started out as friends who spent the first month or so of our friendship repeatedly telling each other, "Now, I just want you to make sure that I am not dating, ever again."
That part didn't last long. Took us both by surprise.
So, I would have to say starting as friends, and neither one of us trying to change a thing about the other. The fact that we had a lot of common interests wasn't nearly as important as our weaknesses being the other person's strengths. We know who we are, accept each other for who they are, and we have each other's backs.
2006-08-23 01:18:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think every ones reasons will be a little different here, every one is different and so are their ex’s. As for me I was married twice before my current marriage. I was in the military during both of my previous marriages but I don’t blame the service for it not working out. While I was deployed my first wife had a problem with fidelity, I don’t blame her, she was on a base full of thousands of young Marines, **** happens. My second wife was the exact opposite she loved to smother me, she was a bit of a nag and very jealous. I now refer to her as the stalker. After those experiences I gave up looking, I became biter and equated all women with evil. I still went out and got laid but I never put my heart out there to be played with. My relationships were purely physical. Then I met my current wife. I had recently left the military and I was attending my local university, she was in two of the same classes I had. We constantly argued in our classes. I admired the way she saw everything differently than I did and that she seamed not to be interested in me. I never ever believed in the storybook true love stories, but I swear I never knew love until I met her. After much pestering on my part, she finally agreed to go on the worst date of my life with me. We went to the beach and everything that could go wrong did. We argued the whole way back to her house where we both agreed that this attempt was over. When I got her home I got out to walk her to the door and she said I don’t know why you’re getting out your not getting a kiss. I responded back that a kiss is the least I should get for putting up with her the whole way here. I walked up to her and …… We have now been married for three years have two adorable little ones. Believe it or not we have never had as much as the tinniest spat sense that day. When we got married we had the ceremony in the same place on the beach where we had our first disastrous date. I don’t regret what happened to me in the past, because I know that my present would have never happened if my previous relationships had worked out.
2006-08-23 01:55:31 · answer #3 · answered by lastknight232003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything. He's the most understanding and patient man I've been with. We were best friends before getting married so we know each other very well. We just get along great.
2006-08-23 01:07:25 · answer #4 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't have the control issues that my X had. He is a person who likes to laugh and have fun. We are alike in that. I could go on all day. There are way to many things to list on the sight.
2006-08-23 01:10:55 · answer #5 · answered by sexyladyinak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if he's all of the following:
1. He's constantly concerned for you
2. He respects your views even if he doesn't agree with yours
3. He "gives" not only "takes" from you
4. He consults with you on things that involve both of you
5. He is honest with you and keeps to his word
2006-08-23 01:11:04 · answer #6 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my current mate is not screwing other people while I am at work or crashing my car so I think thats a good start.
2006-08-23 01:06:16 · answer #7 · answered by College Student 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is because you are so new you have so much to explore and to share. these things makes both of you interesting, special and compatible, rather than your ex.
2006-08-23 01:13:19 · answer #8 · answered by bradd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that we are more compatible probably not that he's cleaner or nicer...mid you he might be...to me it's just that I love him more than my ex's.
2006-08-23 01:16:49 · answer #9 · answered by lol_des 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way he makes me feel no matter what happens he unconditionally loves me
2006-08-23 01:07:25 · answer #10 · answered by feedemsoupbeans 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋