About 2 months ago i was spending me vacation with my family ( they live overseas ), my girlfriends mother got a stroke and was very ill for two weeks till she passed away. I couldn;t come to see my gf in the first to weeks 'cause i wanted to be with my family also and no one thought she was going to die. When my gf mother died i stopped my vacation and came to be with her. I behaved like a prince i was always she wanted with my open arms to confort her. During all that she told me she wasn't sure of what she wanted with me and told me about this other guy. She told me he was only a friend but i didn't like what was happening. About two weeks ago she told me, she was dating him, and she confesed me that she lied 'cause she didn't want to hurt me. After that, i changed my attitude radically, about a week ago, i started dating this girl i like. When my ex gf knew started telling me that what she wants is us to be toghether. I really like this new girl. How should i act? What should i do?
2006-08-22 17:50:21 · 8 answers · asked by Rocko 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I forgot telling you that this new girl is my sisters best friend. LOL... Confusing?
2006-08-22 18:15:32 · update #1
aaaa... Let me get this straight... You cut your vacation short, came to be with her when "her" mom died. You found out she was dating someone else. You moved on (like you should have, can't make someone love you) You found someone else that you like (and I am gonna presume she likes you too). Now she wants to get together with you again!!!! Let me just ask you, do you remember how you felt when she told you she was dating someone else. You really want the new person in your life to feel the way you did too? (I am thinking it was not too good either). ONCE a cheater always a cheater.
2006-08-22 18:01:02 · answer #1 · answered by Tony in Texas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me your ex doesn't seem to know what she wants.
My suggestion take a sabatical for a day or two think about what your heart, mind, soul say and follow the advise of your own intuition. This usually will be the correct decision.
2006-08-22 17:59:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
put aside that her mother died and take a long ahrd look at what she did to you. she pretty much cheated on you. i wouldnt be happy with that. you really like that new girl. see how things go with her and leave the ex alone. she changed her mind bout you once, whats to say she wont do it again.
2006-08-22 17:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, stick with your own agenda. She didn't want you when u
was all alone...but she wants you NOW that you got another girl
in the picture??? To freakin bad. Tell her your done with her, and
she needs to move on. You were there for HER, where was SHE
when you needed HER !! Screw Her !!!!lol lol
2006-08-22 18:01:58 · answer #4 · answered by CraZyCaT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like your old gf isn't anywhere around because she shouldn't be out of respect to your new gf. Act like the grown up you claim to be.
2006-08-22 18:14:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with the new one. you will end up getting dogged by the ex if you go back to her. move on with the new relationship, and avoid your heart from getting hurt twice.
2006-08-22 17:56:41 · answer #6 · answered by R H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart coming from a girl....Lil ma
2006-08-22 17:55:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's her lost. she wanted out, and now she's jealous. u're better off without her.
2006-08-22 17:55:08 · answer #8 · answered by mbd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋