I used to have 4 very good friends in school. We used to hang out together. Lately, i was in a bad mood and i started not to talk much. Slowly, the topics between my friends and i get lesser and lesser. I tried to create topics by asking them questions but in the end, it doesn't works. I know that they do not like me anymore, it obvious that they were avoiding me & saying bad about me. I wish that the relationship between the 5 of us would be like in the past. What should i do???
2006-08-22 17:36:20 · 8 answers · asked by silly_gal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well if i were youtry to behave like them you know like do what they do ;But if it doesnt work just ask them what the matter is
2006-08-22 17:41:19 · answer #1 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should explain the situation to your friends and see if they believe what you have say. I don't know what makes you think tt they don't like you anymore. I think you may not be confidence in yourself. Normally friendship will start to change when all of you begins to start working coz most of the time you will be bz with yiour work commitment and your other relationship too. So just tell your friend the truth, I believe they will believe you. So all the best to you.
2006-08-23 06:36:04 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find new friends. After school, everyone goes there seperate ways anyway. Besides, if they ALL have something against you, then only one of the four is thinking for the group...ask yourself, do you want a friendship where someone has to ask the person to the next of them if it's ok to be friends with you???
2006-08-23 00:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Ma'am 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not talk to them anymore. A true friend would not turn there back on you because you got a little quiet and would not talk about you behind your back ever. If you got quiet they would make sure nothing was wrong and would not shun you instead. I say you find some real friend who aren't still in immature high school drama mode.
2006-08-23 00:42:11 · answer #4 · answered by ѕомєопєѕ▪ ваву ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to tell them what was going on with you so they understand how it happened it is partly their faught for not tring to fix the friend ship this has happened to me before and it worked but in the mean time try to meet new people and if you make really good friends tell them you problem and they can help if you choose to do this and if you become friend with them again don't drop the friend you made friends with
signed good luck i hope i helped you
2006-08-23 00:44:45 · answer #5 · answered by quarters 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sometimes friends just grow apart. If they are talking about you, then they are not truly your friends
2006-08-23 00:43:22 · answer #6 · answered by musicdude2003108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do anything that u can do to get your friends back....beg...say sorry ....talk to me.....give presents.......take them for parties......whatever........never ever loose your good, nice and old friends........
2006-08-23 01:18:25 · answer #7 · answered by doable_rods 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be urself
2006-08-23 12:48:13 · answer #8 · answered by devangel1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋