Okay, here's the story, In the bginning of school, I said I totally didn't like some girls, we'll just call them the M group. And the friends I currently were hanging out with was group N. after I got to know group M alittle better, I noticed that they were cool, and became great friends with them. One day, I decided to try something and see what would happen if I hung out with group M at recess. Then My friend Nicole, from group N is all pist at me now, just because I said i hated group M, becuz of some stuff, but then five days later, i hung out with them. Tomorrow I'm going to explain it to Nicole, that that was only a one time thing, and that im not trying to blow out Nicole for group N. What do I do if Nicole wont listen?
2006-08-22 17:07:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
M- I said i hated becuz aMy said that they were mean and alll. Then five days later, i hung out with them at recess just to see how thinga went.
N- Group I at first hun gout with, cuz im new to this school. And nicole hates me now and thinks im trying to blow her out for group M, what the heck!
2006-08-22 17:10:03 · update #1
god, i don't miss school at all! this stuff is so stupid, but i know since its happening to you right now its a big deal to you. i dont know what to tell you. keep your old friends (N) but explain to them you were wrong about your first opinion of M group, but you'd like to be friends with them all. The whole "group/clique" thing in school is so petty! if nicole cant accept the fact you have other friends, she's not a true friend anyway. i dont know what to tell you. just be yourself and see how many different friends you can make. good luck! ☺
2006-08-22 17:52:18 · answer #1 · answered by QKC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a hypocrite, but then again, that's according to group N. When you're young and cliques are everything, it makes a big difference if you do anything out of the ordinary.
Your friend Nicole feels snubbed, and that doesn't heal too quickly. Explain that you weren't choosing sides, just needed a little variety. Besides, reasurre her that you thought group N was better company!
2006-08-22 17:10:21 · answer #2 · answered by iniyaitza 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I absolutely hate the name Nicole ugh! Ditch her and find better friends. Playing jealous is totally immature, you don't need her. Good luck!
2006-08-22 17:13:51 · answer #3 · answered by curious_boricua_soul 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i imagine you want to be your self and by no skill care a lot about how different human beings choose you. basically be your own staggering self, and leave it at that. do not problem a lot about what different human beings imagine.
2016-11-27 00:06:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to shut up and just be friends with both groups....its stupid to separate urselves from other ppl for stupid reasons. be friends with whoever u want.
2006-08-22 17:09:47 · answer #5 · answered by Regina P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you wait and see if she actually listens first before worrying about it.
Little girls are little bitches.
2006-08-22 17:10:15 · answer #6 · answered by Kylie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know some day you will grow up and realize that none of this matters.
2006-08-22 17:08:54 · answer #7 · answered by flyingbumblebee 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
petty sh*t get over it
2006-08-22 17:10:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
so sorry
2006-08-22 17:09:58 · answer #9 · answered by Jesica Lopez 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋