I work, cook, shop, wash clothes and dishes, take the kids to school, bathe her and comb her hair. When she argues with her family or friends she expects me to make her feel better even when I think she is in the wrong. Then she says i'm mean and don't pay any attention to her. I think she's asking too much of me.
2006-08-22 16:49:38 · 13 answers · asked by breeze1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have walked away from an abusive childhood and stepped in to an emotionally abusive relationship. (I read your other ?'s about your childhood) You are allowing her to walk all over you. You can only do so much as a husband. Do not allow her to make you feel as if you are failing as a husband. Sounds to me that you go above and beyond the call of duty as a spouse. You shouldn't have to bathe her and comb her hair (unless you want to) . I think she has the problem and is too dependent on you.
2006-08-24 09:04:01 · answer #1 · answered by geni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's in the military and this is a real question, he will be shifting into some severe problem. the military would not like adult adult males who rape and abuse their different halves. If he ever lays a hand on you back, you higher helpful call his commander. that couldn't precise. Onto the different subject matters, absolutely everyone else on right it really is calling, why did you marry him?? a guy who hurts you, rapes you, violates you in any way, does no longer love you. he's treating you without repsect, and also you're letting him. the very actuality he stopped raping you and choking you would not advise a aspect. If he became an abuser, probability is, he will bypass precise decrease back to it. And verbally abusing you is likewise nevertheless abuse. you want to seek out help. sturdy success
2016-11-27 00:04:32 · answer #2 · answered by heckart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow she sounds pretty lucky to me i have a husband just like you but we do all that stuff as a partnership i dont expect him to do it all thats not fair and shes not being fair either.if shes in the wrong you shouldnt comfort her and she needs to get over herself you can only do so much for one person.why do u do all that stuff?why doesnt she do anything?comforting someone has no time or place when it happens you really need to talk to her and ask her whats up.your relationship needs to be 50/50 does she compfort u when u need it?let her know its to much and if things dont change you will change them no questions asked. i hope you find happiness in your marriage and a correct compfort
2006-08-22 17:10:22 · answer #3 · answered by nvvlewis 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your a wiener. And she does too. Grow some balls and stop being her maid!
Defend her honor when someone undermines her. Financially pull the weight of the family as well as for it's future security. and Grow some mucsles so you look like you can get it on!
Maybe you're not giving her what she needs in the bedroom...limp wiener.
2006-08-22 16:53:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try taking time to sit down and talk to her. Make sure you allow "quality" time for just the two of you. By the way, she should be helping with the household chores!
2006-08-22 16:52:31 · answer #5 · answered by 75160 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I expect 100% from my husband ,but then again, I always try to GIVE 100%.Things should be equal.On the comfort thing,You don't have to agree with her to comfort her.Just let her know your listening.
2006-08-22 16:53:51 · answer #6 · answered by hippiegirl672003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if u really do all that, she might be selfish.. stop doing all that and cater to her the way she wants you to. im sure there will be a problem with that too. tell her exactly how u feel and go from there
2006-08-22 16:52:39 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. DeVine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is asking to much too. Why do you do all of this? Is she supporting you also? You two need to compromise.
2006-08-22 16:51:57 · answer #8 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be you're too busy that you sometimes forget that she also needs your companionship not just you running errands.
try spending more quality time with her. rekindle what you have when you two were just starting your life together.
2006-08-22 20:19:46 · answer #9 · answered by chenelynmae 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
women just need attention and affection you may do a lot but the affection is what she seems to be craving try to see it from her side.
2006-08-22 16:54:21 · answer #10 · answered by thedreamer 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋