even though he is 25 and we have a 2 year old he wont get a job.its been me. and im only 21!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-22 16:31:54 · 6 answers · asked by naomierock2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe because you have spoiled him by taking care of him.......Tell him to get out if he doesn't get a job and MEAN it.........Give him a time frame and stick to it,sister, unless you WANT to take care of him..........
2006-08-22 16:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same boat hun.
im married to him..we have a 15 month old..and I HAVE BEEN supporting our baby!! not to mention myself and him!
he hasnt worked in 2 years! hes been mooching off my family.
and wait im only 20 almost 21. :( hes 23!! hes more then capable to go work..he just wont.
I ended up living at my parents with our baby its sad..very sad..my mom/dad babysit our daughter while i work..while he sleeps all day and smokes weed
He even has a child support order out cuz he never works..so the state pays me his child support..and there letting it collect on his credit
2006-08-22 23:40:42 · answer #2 · answered by mommy2savannah51405 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because he knows no matter what you will support him. He knows you love him, & will put up with him not working. Life is/might be to easy for him if you are providing him with everything. Tell him he needs to support his child because the child needs to eat. If he is not interested in working get rid of him. He's LAZY. Him not working is going to create arguments, & that's not good for the child or yourself.
2006-08-22 23:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by Big Mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because he's a lazy bum that has been bumming off of you since you've been together and just because u gotta kid, doesnt make a difference... this is not something new he just started im sure you've been footing the bill since the beginning... get out while u can...
2006-08-22 23:36:09 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. DeVine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmmmm.... Maybe cuz he's a lazy bump, and prob is waiting for you to get on welfare. You need to stop having kids til you can afford them. quit sponging off the system. Dump him UNTIL he get a job. You need to continue your education and cut off the welfare cycle your prob in.
2006-08-23 00:02:17 · answer #5 · answered by Tony in Texas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope your not taking care of his ***. You need to kick him to the curb but also file for child support. So when he does get one he will have to pay!
2006-08-22 23:34:44 · answer #6 · answered by Simmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋