Be honest, do things that really interst you. don't try to be like anone else, being fake will be obvious.
if you like to dance, join a dance class, if you like to cook, volunteer at a homeless shelter or Ronald McDonald House,
do something that matters, when you do what you like you will find others with similar intersts -
do new things, be friendly - not trendy
best wishes
2006-08-22 16:30:10
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answered by Laurie B 2
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You don't have to learn lines and put on an act to keep from getting ignored. "Lines" don't make you seem real, they sound phony. The real key to that is to become more "interested". Ask others questions about themselves. About what they like to do or are interested in. Be genuinely interested in their stories. Listen and learn. Try to understand where they are coming from. The more you understand and know others, the more interesting you will be because you will have worthwhile things to share.
"Funny" lines in typical conversations have to fit the situation, and can't really be rehearsed. Unless you are a stand-up comic they have to be "off the cuff". You have to gain a keen sense of humor to do that effectively, and doing the above will help with that too.
2006-08-22 23:38:24
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answered by kj 7
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There is a happy medium between being ignored and being the center of attention. Read more, keep up with the current news, think about everyone else and not about yourself. Focus on them and what is going on with them and you will be more popular
2006-08-22 23:32:07
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answered by westgaliberty 6
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Find yourself an interesting hobby, spend some time getting to know yourself, and stop worrying so much if people are paying attention to you. Attention seeking is an unattractive quality. Be happy with yourself, and others will see that.
2006-08-22 23:29:43
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answered by KyLeth 4
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don't live your life to be someone else you are not. just do the things you enjoy, and it will be interesting. you have to try that, it's good for yourself and that's more cool than anything when you think back in the next 20 to 30 years. for example if you like drawing and classical music, knock yourself out at arts class or at piano lessons and try to make something of it in years to come, like work yourself towards becoming an arts director or music instructor.Live your life. for every interesting guy, there's always another more interesting than him, so why bother trying to be interesting in the eyes of others.
2006-08-22 23:43:29
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answered by listlessbutdiligent 3
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Change your look, change the way you act or sound. Try something a little opposite of yourself. See what happens. Sometimes alcohol helps slowly not too much though.
2006-08-22 23:31:46
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answered by Ashesmum 2
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I'll tell you what will really work. Listen more than you talk, and you'll be so popular that people will love to be your friend. Don't offer opinions until someone asks, and when you hear a joke, laugh.
2006-08-22 23:32:32
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answered by Anonymous
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You get my attention and since this moment you are very special because not everybody can do that and you seem me an intelligent person, I guess that you are beautiful
2006-08-22 23:32:26
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answered by ghost 1
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You know what the number 1 thing is that attracts people to you? Self confidence. No matter what you look like, no matter what your financial situation, no matter what your IQ is, if you believe you are cool, really believe it, people will be attracted to you.
2006-08-22 23:31:20
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answered by Anonymous
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just be yourself, you don't want to try too hard to get ppl's attention, you can get attention by being yourself, trying too hard sometimes makes people don't like you.
2006-08-22 23:29:00
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answered by superboredom 6
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