My fiance, and father of my child lives at home still, and his younger brother is dating his ex who used to be the sl*t of the county, and she is known having a problem with cheating all the time. My man and her only dated for a few weeks and they just f*ked all the time until she left him for some lesbian crack head. Is it wrong for me to pretty much hate her and be a biatch to her all the time cuz my man is around and she's talking to him...or am I being too protective and jealous? She's seriously annoying and my man acts different when she's around...he's like nice to her and a super a$$ to me. Are my feelings and actions justified?
2006-08-22 16:25:33 · 8 answers · asked by unu0nlybabe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
thanks for all the answers so far...
Now I know I'm in the right about all this
<333
2006-08-22 16:34:46 · update #1
If he acts different around HER, then sweety why haven't you kicked him in his head??? seriously though you shouldn't be with anyone who treats you like garbage especially around his EX!
Don't worry about miss thing, because if she really is the town slut then she'll eventually move on to the next "big" thing.
2006-08-22 16:29:52 · answer #1 · answered by ArtisticallyUgly 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
o.k. this is a complicated question on one hand it seems like ur jealose of the attention ur man gives her which isnt right for him to do... as for hating her i dont think its a reasonable thing to do because think about it like this if she didnt break it up ur man wouldnt be your man... being protective is normal... jealosy is normal just dont let either totally run it... so just sit ur man down and talk it threw with him and how u feel if he cant understand id say find someone a little more mature
either way
God Bless
LusTlesS
2006-08-22 23:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by LusTlesS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right to be that way. My man is not allowed to go near the mothers of his kids. I hate them both and he knows it. I got sick of him talking to them and seeing them because of the kids. He is only allowed to talk to them when it comes to the kids, and I have to be there to listen to their phone conversations. I don't play games! Talk to him and lay the law down. She is a damn b i t c h for sleeping with both brothers and more so she is a s l u t. Tell her to keep away from your man. If he doesn't stay away from her and keeps talking to her, then just dump him and find someone better. There are more men out there. It will be his loss. Good luck!
2006-08-22 23:43:05 · answer #3 · answered by curious_boricua_soul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they are. I think you need to have a sit down with your man. Or kick his bro out, so she isn't near your man. and if he leaves at night, make sure you know where he goes, just incase. Its not being overprotective, its being sure. But make sure you dont have him feel you are taking up to much space, or darn i can't remember at all what else i was going to say. So sorry, that is all.
2006-08-22 23:28:58 · answer #4 · answered by aim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can catch more bees with honey than vinagor..... be so sweet she gets a tooth ache..... the more you show your ugly feelings the more she will lay it on your guy.... pretend she dont matter and she makes no difference to you...... some girls and guys too, just enjoy the making of trouble with a capital T... so smile and just gush with joy all the time.... and maybe ur guy needs to think with his head and not his &%#$ !!!! watch and listen and keep a close eye out but do NOT be obvious about it.......... God bless
2006-08-22 23:31:49 · answer #5 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would be a huge biatch to her. Usually, I am quiet about people or things that bother me but I learned the hard way its easier just to do what you have to do (be mean).
2006-08-22 23:31:11 · answer #6 · answered by Ash_082 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right
2006-08-22 23:29:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree.
2006-08-22 23:31:07 · answer #8 · answered by diaryofamadblackman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋