help I got a reallt tough problem?

Question

Well, earlier I wrote a question about a problem with my wife and it'll explain why I'm asking this question. Well, my wife just told me that she doesn't feel sexy and wanted anymore because we don't have "IT" anymore and that I don't seduce her.

What can I do? I don't know how to do that anymore!!! Any tips?

"Really" tough problem. sorry.

Answer 1

go to a toy store and buy some anal beads babe

Answer 2

Mate, make it happen, but do it this way:

1) Make a date. You know, a real date where you take your wife out to a movie, a play, even a walk in the park.
2) Have a romantic candlelit dinner. Even cook yourself.
3) Set the scene. Put rose petals on the bed, light the bedroom with scented candles, put on some soft music.
4) Take your time. No need to 'jump in' straight away. Spend some time kissing, some time caressing, some time discovering each other again.
5) Add 'other ingredients' if all else fails. This can be from a jar of smooth peanut butter to 'toys' from an adult store.

Is your problem one of erectile disfunction? If that's the case, maybe you could go see a doctor. There's many things you can do about that as well - not just pills.

Good luck, and enjoy!

Answer 3

You're sweet. Maybe take her on a romantic vacation over the weekend just the two of you and make it feel like when you guys were starting out. Good luck. And tell her sexy is only skin deep. Her brain is more sexy and that's the thing that got you hooked to begin with not her body.....

Answer 4

start by taking her out on a romantic dinner then go to the movies.something romantic.then when you get her home and when she is undressing ,from behind carress her shoulders and arms then kiss her on the neck.if she asks what are you doing just say shhhh continue kissing her neck.even the back of the neck.rub her shoulders gently tell her how much she means to you and how sexy she looked tell her you need her and want her all the time look her in the eyes.after all she is a very special lady.pick her up after she has gotten changed gently put her in bed.continue kissing her and saying how special she is to you and she always will.tell her how proud you are to be her husband and that you love her with all your heart and all your soul and all your mind.that she completes you.and that you aer madly in love with her.and continue kissing her then well you'll know what to do I hope it works out.good luck.

Answer 5

Go on a weekend get away. You need to be away from all negative distractions. No need for a fancy dinner, just a bottle of wine over a candle lit dinner and maybe have a bubble bath together! Go down on her.... Tell her you want to pleasure her like you have never done before. Good luck and I hope you both get your zing back in your relationship.

Answer 6

Henry. I had the same problem. I have been married almost 40 years,and our love life was at a standstill. We decided to go out on dates again,and to the same places we went when we were young. We also wore skimpy clothing,and well,everything got hotter from there. Try some of the old things that worked.

Answer 7

Take her out someplace nice, so she'll be all "fixed-up" and feeling at her best. While you're out, tell her how nice she looks. Make a lot of eye contact, give her a sly grin and when she asks, "What's that all about?", tell her something ..."frisky", like , "Just looking at you is making me want to..." and when you've finished your meal or movie or whatever, make-out w/ her as soon as you get in the car. If you've got a little extra cash, get a motel room, make her feel like you can't even wait to get her home. And then, make good on all the things you've said to her that night. When you're making love to her, make her make eye contact w/ you. Literally, tell her, "look at me", or " Just stand there, I love seeing you/your ____? " Tell her, " You are so sexy" You make me so hot. I love looking at you. or I love touching you. or I love it when you ___?" Whatever, just make her feel "wanted". Try to remember what attracted you to her in the 1st place and above all else remember, this person honestly and truly Loves you. This is the one person that would do anything for you. Hope this helps and good luck...here's hoping you both get "lucky" ; )

Answer 8

Make her feel sexy and wanted. Even if you don't think she is all that sexy, tell her she looks beautiful, when she is dressed up or even just in an old pair of jeans, tell her you love that "skirt" or those "jeans" and that they make her look so sexy and hott. These comments will make her feel good about herself. You have to always tell her she looks good. Thats just the way women are we always need to hear it. Hope this helps!

Answer 9

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Answer 10

You need to put some spice into your relationships.
You should make a night to remember by buying her a gift with a card that is writing inside your feeling about her and how much you love her,bring her to a restaurant so you can be alone.you can also bring her to the place you two have met .good luck

Answer 11

make her feel beautiful! Buy her something sexy like lingerie, or a sexy black dress, and take hwer to a very nice diner. tell her you love her more often, tell her how lucky you feel that you have her. Don't think all this is cheesy, to her it will mean a lot, i promise. Good Luck!