The worst thing I've heard is women complaining about guys being too "shallow" and always wanting sex. These are the same women who always go for the "pretty" boy or the "bad boys". You would think with all of the women telling other women about their bad experiences with "bad boys" cheating on them, they would take the hint. These so called "sensitive and nice guys" that these women want are there, but are never noticed. Sad thing is that the nice guys always have to wait until older ages when women actually MATURE enough to realize that "bad boys" make terrible husbands. Seems that nice guys do finish last because of women who are too stupid or naive.
Thoughts?
2006-08-22 16:09:11 · 22 answers · asked by Gazhan 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
That's a woman for ya. Half crazy, half wonderful. If we guys weren't so patient and understanding we'd go nuts.
2006-08-22 16:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It has to do with childhood..If they didnt have a father or their dad was a rough type of guy, women will naturally be more attracted to these guys..If they grew up with a great father who respeted their mom, and was always there for them, then they wouldnt pick the "bad boys"...Also women always want to "fix" whats broken, not realizing in most cases thats not possible. "Oh if I show him how muh I love him he will change I know it". Sometimes women need to learn for themselves, but there are younger woman out there that want a good guy, and dont look twice at the bad boys..
2006-08-22 23:15:25 · answer #2 · answered by misstikal311 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your absolutely right, unfortunately I didn't realize it until I got hurt by a "bad boy" as you put it. Now I'm happy in a relationship with a really sweet man who actually told me he didn't think I'd ever go out with him because of the nice guys finish last thing. I'm glad I did though because he's definitely the one who will love me and take care of me forever. He's fun too!!!
2006-08-22 23:16:35 · answer #3 · answered by Britt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that is not always true - you are generalizing. What you are saying is true in some instances and I totally agree that some woman go for the wrong men and so that is why they don't find what they are looking for, because you can't change them to be an ideal mate.
I learn from a mistake the first time and I think that we all learn from our mistakes. You live...you learn. I'm not old and I know better.
2006-08-22 23:18:25 · answer #4 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. Often enough I suppose. Kinda sad.
But lets remember this is not always the case.
Better luck to you though. Sounds like you've had some bad times with immature girls. Hopefully the future will bring you a more mature dame...All the best.
2006-08-22 23:14:50 · answer #5 · answered by rainsparrow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have a thought...as a if you disrespect womens intelligence by making generalizations like that you are no better. Guys in general are more sexually driven than women...so it can only be expected to some degree. On the other hand there are a limited amount of women who like "bad boys." Men mature after women and for along time if women are going out with people around their age...they by nature will be more mature. Or it could be said that the kind of girls you are interested are the kind of girls who are "stupid and naive" and like bad boys. Liking a bad boy and liking someone with confidence who isnt dull...is not the same thing.
2006-08-22 23:19:09 · answer #6 · answered by got_manholes 1 · 0⤊ 4⤋
My husband is a "nice guy" and I'm 25 and he's 27... perfect ages for marraige... I noticed him right away. I've been in relationships with ONLY nice men since I was 17... where ya getting your info from???
2006-08-22 23:12:41 · answer #7 · answered by sarah_lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, most people can only learn from their own mistakes, not from others. Besides, I like mature women, i can wait.
2006-08-22 23:14:52 · answer #8 · answered by Joe Nathan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope - you're right. It is too bad. I hope you can find someone who will appreciate you. Those other women give the rest of us a bad name. Sorry -
2006-08-22 23:10:58 · answer #9 · answered by They call me ... Trixie. 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you wanna introduce Mr. Prince Charming to me that meets my qualifications and lives in my area, go right ahead. Find me the hottie Mr. Nice Guy that has a career and a good future, and a non dysfunctional family and we might have something, but until then, its looking like some ******* to choose from.
2006-08-22 23:13:14 · answer #10 · answered by susie 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋