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Are they not worried that they will annoy anyone else? Are they selfish?

Or is it selfish to keep your thoughts to yourself only because you are nervous (thus worried only about your own actions) and don't want to say anything that may come out wrong?

2006-08-22 16:07:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Other - Society & Culture

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It is ussualy one of 2 things.

1. they are so insecure about everything they say (are) they say more and more to try to get a better average of stupid (deumb wrong) things to correct acceptable .....

2. they need to feel involved in everthing and this stems from a need for attention. If they dont comment they may be seen as ignorant or inferior.

2006-08-22 16:13:44 · answer #1 · answered by NARC 3 · 0 0

It depends largely on one's personality. Some people like to talk and never run out of things to say and/or say out loud what immediately comes to mind. Some are more reflective, opting to speak only when addressed or when they are absolutely sure that it is the right thing to say, etc. I don't think selfishness has anything to do with it (unless consciously) for quiet people, or the desire to annoy others for the more talkative people. People are differemt. That's what makes life exciting!

2006-08-22 23:19:43 · answer #2 · answered by flingbee 2 · 0 0

I talk all the time. My father used to say the telephone should've been grafted to my ear.

My 5-year old daughter talks all the time, too. I think it's in the genes. Then again, my son is quiet...takes after his Daddy.

That being said...I talk because I can. It's not out of selfishness, really. It's just who I am.

2006-08-22 23:14:52 · answer #3 · answered by WhyAskWhy 5 · 0 0

There are some who think that because you don't continue talking with them means you didn't like what they just said. So that makes them feel stupid. They dig around in their brains to find things to talk about so the silence doesn't grow and swallow them. Call it lack of confidence or low self esteem. It's sad.

Why would it be selfish to keep my thoughts to myself? Some of my thoughts are none of your business. I'll share what I want but at times, I'd rather not.

2006-08-22 23:16:33 · answer #4 · answered by Blue 6 · 0 0

those who talk all the time do it for different reasons, I think I do it a lot of the time out of nervousness and some times I do it because I have a lot to say to someone I havent seen in a long time. I hate it when I do it out of nervousness because I feel I give the wrong people too much information. and I sometimes think I sound stupid. and probably do. I hate when I do that.

2006-08-22 23:16:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i talk too much and i'm not quite sure why... it may be that i'm a little self centred but also i just feel the need to tell my stories. its good to break the ice but then i take it to far. Its alright to think to yourself but some people are actually interested in other people's opinons and whatnot. every situation is unique and both can be good or bad.

2006-08-22 23:14:20 · answer #6 · answered by Meemah 3 · 0 0

Not all the time, just to unwind at the end of the day.
On Saturday I'll shut up and let the Rocket III do my talkin for me in the dyno shoot out at hondaeast.com.

2006-08-22 23:11:23 · answer #7 · answered by valcus43 6 · 0 0

I am the quiet girl in my group of friends. Every one else talks all the time. So i am used to it. One of my friends says that she talks alot according to her moods. If she's happy she will talk alot. And really fast too. If she is depressed she won't talk at all.

2006-08-22 23:14:02 · answer #8 · answered by eezypeezy92 3 · 0 0

kak's rite, i talk all the time cuz i hate quietness. i feel like i gotta be loud all the time

2006-08-22 23:11:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

We are all different. Humans are that way. But, don't you like to talk?!

2006-08-22 23:12:44 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 0 0

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