like the person has everything, a house, a family, a job, money, even luxury, but he or she still want to kill himself or herself due to boredom, how do you convince the person to stop and try to see the world better..
the person claims that he or she no longer has a dream,,,he or she believes in GOd but for some reason she couldnt go on with living she is too bored,,,tired like me
2006-08-22 16:00:05 · 15 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
I won't tell her anything, I just ask things (which I don't need the answers)
"What will happen to people you'll leave?"
"What will happen to your family if you die?"
"Do you ever feel lost because someone's death?"
"Don't you see that life is beautiful?"
Well, if after that question he/she still want to die, go ahead, I don't really care (even he/she is someone I really love), it's only make you meet your end of story faster.
I don't really "want" to live anylonger anyway, I just has answers for myself from those questions which keep me alive, keep me to have will to live.
You don't need a dream to live,
You don't need GOD or believes to live,
all you need to live is just a will to keep alive,
which will help people to keep alive (even at coma).
Life is like a film, and WE ALL are the main actor/actress and when WE died it's just like "end of WE story"
but it'll stay "alive" as long as there's people who "watch" or "read" or even "remember" that "WE story"
Example:
It's just Like if I'm died it means end of Joxie story :p
Living being has no reason to born, why it needs reason to die?
2006-08-22 17:04:05 · answer #1 · answered by Joxie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If clinically depressed or genetically prone to melancholy, before spending time & money on meds & therapy, getting dependent on artificial mood lifters--I suggest to hop on a plane & tour an underdeveloped country where the sun & sand shine. One gets enriched by the new experiences, the neurons grow and stretch, soul refreshed & invigorated, the soul thankful for blessings received & an attitude that won't take things for granted after realizing other people don't have much.
Life is an adventure! All one needs is a wake-up call. Go for it, Go with God!
2006-08-22 23:14:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her one of two things. Get a dog and train it. but most of all, get out and find some cause and help it. Find some people and give them a helping hand...literally.
Now, we are all bored at one time or another in our lives. And it appears that this individual is certainly blessed with all material goods and needs, that she has all she appears to want and now she want to do the most selfish thing on earth and that is to kill herself. Suicide is a means of getting back at people, not a means of throwing off something, she wants to do the ultimate act of selfishness to be noticed and to have people feel sorry for her.
She must get herself out of the way, and save another life! Someone Else's. There are so many people that could use someone to talk to, someone to just come over and take them to lunch, to the store, to help in so many ways. She could get involved with mothers who have been put out of their homes because of their husbands, children who's paren'ts arent around because they have to work, there are schools that need help so badly, she doesn't need the pay...she can do so much for so many.
If she kills herself, she will be thought of for the rest of all those that knew her, as selfish, weak and grossly self absorbed.
2006-08-22 23:20:30 · answer #3 · answered by kickinupfunf 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is proof to everyone that money can't buy happiness. People who have to struggle a bit (work, kids, balancing finances, etc.) don't have time to be depressed over being bored. Your friend should see a psychiatrist - sounds like she can afford one. There is a chance that she has a chemical inbalance, although it sounds mostly like she has nothing going on in her life that is driving her to go on. She needs a therapist, and a change.
2006-08-22 23:07:12 · answer #4 · answered by Lori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that they are a selfish coward..There are those of us with dreams that the world can be a better place with the help of others. There are people needing love, not stuff, there are people depending on them for something more important..It takes courage to live, it takes courage to dream, and it takes courage and compassion to make the world a better place, even with just one small step..
2006-08-22 23:21:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and kill an ant better than kill herself. just go try todo something risky that can cheer up ur life with a flush of adrenalin
2006-08-22 23:08:51 · answer #6 · answered by pinky sakura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to see a psychiatrist and get on a combination of:
kolonopin
effexor
remaron
Did me wonders, NO more knives!!!! NO more driving cars off cliffs!!! NO more taking several vials of fast acting insulin!!! and mostly NO more GUNS!!!
Me happy now. me sleepy too.
2006-08-22 23:08:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
money usually multiply the affect of depression. He need to date a girl/guy who is very very outgoing and forget life.
2006-08-22 23:10:16 · answer #8 · answered by savio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enroll that fool in some college courses, some karate, some cooking classes, get him a job, or her -
get them some voluntter work, some bills, a pet,
then we will see who is bored.
what a fool!
2006-08-22 23:25:24 · answer #9 · answered by Laurie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take on shopping! take vacations to exotic places! Life is what u make it! Make it a good one!
2006-08-22 23:02:37 · answer #10 · answered by woohooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋