My friend wasn't very accepting the fact I'm bi.That I very attracted women and rarely find men attractive.I literally find 20 females that I'm attracted to before I find one male that I'm attracted to.I noticed I was attracted to females starting 9th grade.So why can't she just accept it and try not to talk me out of being who I am?
2006-08-22 15:25:19 · 12 answers · asked by no name 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
AGAIN this is a bi not accepting I'm bi..My straight friends are cool with me being bi and my not sure friend accepts I'm bi too.. it's only my bi friend who won't accept it.
2006-08-22 15:32:52 · update #1
this friend is more of the girl you'll see on girls gone wild..
2006-08-22 15:59:53 · update #2
I'm also a year older than her.. she's 21 now and i'm 22.Might be a reason why she's being like she is.maturity level.
2006-08-22 16:03:34 · update #3
Your friend may not be accepting you, not that you're bisexual, but that you're now her competitor for other women.
In other words: she's jealous.
2006-08-22 15:42:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you will be bisexual (in view which you won't have the capacity to compliment no longer be in case you're), yet customarily, that's no longer known... There are nonetheless Muslim theocratic international locations the place gay acts are punishable by dying. once you're in usa or Western Europe, you should be risk-free popping out, finding on how religious your mothers and fathers are.
2016-12-11 13:30:33 · answer #2 · answered by mijarez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? Do they think you are a str8 up lesbian? Why are they so hooked on labels? Is it possible they are jealous or feel threatened (ie...some str8's play Bi to get attention... "girls gone wild", anyone?), that maybe you are a true blue and they are not? Maybe it's a dominant alpha female approach...either way, they have issues.
Don't make them yours...walk away.
2006-08-22 15:44:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same way. I think people assume all of us are just girls that get drunk and make out with our female friends without any real attraction or desire for a relationship. Which isn't the case at all!
2006-08-22 15:28:35 · answer #4 · answered by i luv teh fishes 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you are bi if you choose to define yourself that way. I can appreciate a womens beauty but I am gay. I was bi for a while. But no one told me what I was and how I should define myself. Be true to you.
2006-08-22 15:33:57 · answer #5 · answered by Vell g 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so you're like 80 percent gay, no prob! Tell her if she wanted you to accept her, she has to do the same. And don't worry about labels. My own bisexuality varies depending who I'm looking at!
2006-08-22 19:01:19 · answer #6 · answered by Mithrandir_black 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are 20 to 1 lesbian.
2006-08-22 15:41:39 · answer #7 · answered by crystal89431 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, I've never heard that before. Maybe she just doesn't think you're serious, a faker, if you must. Otherwise, maybe she thinks you're a lesbian, which kind of sounds like maybe you are, and she's scared of you, as stupid as that is. Good luck!!
2006-08-22 16:49:46 · answer #8 · answered by REDHED4 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she probably thinks you are just straight lesbian because you are more attracted to girls. it happens.. obviously if she can't accept it she isn't a good friend tell her she needs to back off.
2006-08-22 16:07:55 · answer #9 · answered by Shea Butta 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She cannot accept because you are a threat to her......
Because you probably looks better than her and those babes will come to you more than her...... that's why she does not accept.
2006-08-22 20:56:59 · answer #10 · answered by Lenox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋