okay today we talked on the phone.. and he goes i am going to call you back in a while.. and i always think that it is another girl on the other line... so just like a minute ago, we were on the phone and he told me 2 hold on, and i did... and now he isent back jet... and i am starding to wonder if there is a nother girl there... but he tells me that he wont never cheat on me, that he loves me, and i belive him, i just cant belive him when he says ill call you back and he never does... so what should i do... trust him... or just see what happends between us?
2006-08-22 15:24:59 · 13 answers · asked by babyboyken_annagurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Take your time and see what happens, you sound young, no offense by that, but take your time and if he's not the one at least you didn't act or do things with him that you'll regret. There are allot of people in this world who'll treat you the way you want, in time. Good Luck
2006-08-22 15:27:46 · answer #1 · answered by Wood77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From too much experience with guys like this, I must tell you that I truly believe there in another girl. Maybe he does love you in his own way, but he isn't in love with you or this wouldn't be happening. Even with what you think is true love, most men will cheat. I don't understand it and it hurts so bad. I don't understnad why a man can't just be honest. I rather be hurt by honesty than to find out otherwise. He doesn't call you back because he is involved with another girl. I have had this happen too much to me and it has been the same story over and over. I wouldn't trust him at all. The more you trust, the more hurt you will suffer. If I was you, I would follow him sometime and see if you can catch him in action. I have had success with this more than I care to admit. The last guy I was with, I loved him more than I have ever loved anyone. I thought he love me the same way. We never fought, and I did everything in the world for this man. He always told me he would never cheat on me. He said why in the world would I even want to when I have the best thing that has ever happened to me in my life. I let my wall down totally and gave him my whole heart and soul. 3 months into the relationship, I found out he was messing with 5 more girls. We was living together and one of the girls came to our apartment. Then I found out about all of the rest. I left him and he would call and write me letters on how he missed me and needed me. That I was the best thing that ever happened to him and he wanted me back. And only me. I was the only one for him. So I stupidly went back to him because I loved him so much. He was right back doing his thing within a month. I asked him why he had done me this way when I had done everything in the world for him and alot more. He said, I am just a guy and this is what guys do. I left him for good. It wasn't easy and took me 3 years before I could even go out on a date again. Don't trust this guy. He is giving you all of the warning signs of messing around. I am sorry this is happening to you. It su*** and hurts so bad. I will be thinking about you alot. Good luck.
2006-08-22 17:59:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my own past experiences... I never stay on hold for a long time for a guy. This is because I KNOW he is on the other line talking to someone else. I know, because, I am usually the other girl calling on, and making the dumb girlfriend sit on hold... He could be telling the truth, but think back to when you first got together, did he leave you on hold a lot then??/ Did he call you back when he said he would??? And now, everythings changed? Use your intuition... It is usually always right!
2006-08-22 15:30:16 · answer #3 · answered by Myzz Undastood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is another girl. Men are pigs. I can say that because I am a man.
We always want something else, not better, but something else.
Do yourself a favor and ditch him. Then take your time. no need to rush into a relationship with another person.
2006-08-22 15:27:38 · answer #4 · answered by holicheese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, you are being too clinched to him. Everyone need his own space. Telling you that he will call you bak proves his love to you. The reason why he said that is because he had something to do. Its because you love him too much and is scared to lose him. Thats why you are getting suspicious. Let me tell you something, such suspicions in love may destroy the relationship. You need security in fact. Why dont you talk to him abt it? maybe you will trust him ore than ever.
2006-08-22 15:29:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly think that you are looking for things to worry about. There are so many more important things to worry about in a relationship than him getting another call.
2006-08-22 15:27:15 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh geez....i think yall need to sit down and talk about the things that bother u......tell em u dont like what he does on the phone....but as long as he takes the time out to spend wit u than i wouldnt worry bout it too much...boys dont like to be around us all the time....give em a lil space~
2006-08-22 15:31:04 · answer #7 · answered by thnkofme06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words-if he acts like he loves you he does and if he does not act like it then he doesn't. I am guessing that you two are very young-in that case don't sweat it there will be more men down the road.
2006-08-22 15:28:45 · answer #8 · answered by gee-geeofmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he said he "I love u". there nothing u can do. u should be feel good. But keep investigating. I think u worrying too much. Just ask him. Talk with him. good luck.
2006-08-22 15:57:01 · answer #9 · answered by Bryce L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just see were it will lead you. some guys dont know how to express there feelings to another girl.just follow your heart and the answers will come you.do not prees him just leave him alone he answers will come to you
2006-08-22 15:29:41 · answer #10 · answered by Cynthia M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋