My ex and I broke up, he said his heart said we arent meant to be together. I did not take it well. I went after him for about 2 months. I am finally over him. We talk on AIM. and i sent him a message and it poped up and "scared the **** out of him". he was like thanks a lot.. i was in the middle of typing something really long to this girl i like.. he was like u always ruin everything. he acts like a 2 year old. and i have had enough. am i being unreasonable? because i am thinking of ending our friendship.
2006-08-22 14:59:17 · 24 answers · asked by an14341991 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he sounds immture to me. he ended and u were still friends with him. he has low self esteem if he thinks hurting u will make him feel better. u should not be even friends with a guy like this. find some one who will love u for u and just be nicer to u and maybe this time a guy will be mature ( but dont keep ur hopes too high. all men r immature) best of luck
2006-08-22 15:11:17 · answer #1 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a very friendly person and i usually get along with everybody, but it is because of this that i get hurt alot. I don't think that you are being unreasonable by telling him that you don't want to be friends anymore. sometimes you need to ask yourself what am i getting out of this relationship. if your answer is anoyance or pain then that person is not worth your time.
2006-08-22 22:05:45 · answer #2 · answered by Tabitha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm i think he may be trying to tell you that he just wants some time away from you- chasing him like that just makes you look desperate and is not really a good look. You would be however unreasonable to end your freindship-i think tha you should give him some room to breathe and take things slow that way he will see that you genuinly want to be his freind
2006-08-22 22:03:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy Crap! YOU need to get a life and understand when the end means the end. I'm guessing you are just another homone-driven teen....and that just figures.
Get over it, get a brain, get a life.
2006-08-22 22:02:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not being unreasonable; he is being immature. End it with him. It is the right thing to do.
2006-08-22 22:04:40 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds selfish, self centered, ignorant, and immature. No, you are not being unreasonable. End it!
2006-08-22 22:04:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't have a friendship, sweetie!!! What part of breaking up don't you understand? Leave him alone.....get it??? You are making a total fool out of yourself......grow up and move on!
2006-08-22 22:03:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
End what relationship?Hes a jerk,get away from him,and that means no communication.Get your pride back.
2006-08-22 22:03:07 · answer #8 · answered by mustang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um if u moved on then why r us still tryna entertain him.. it's obvious that he has moved on and so should u.. instead of trying so hard to stay in contact w/him and be his friend u need to move on and find u a new friend.. it's over, get over and leave him alone....
2006-08-22 22:01:31 · answer #9 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are definitely not being unreasonable. Just end it.
2006-08-22 22:05:52 · answer #10 · answered by OkieOk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋