well im going to have sex 4 the first time and i think i may be on my period when this happens im a little unconfertible with the thought of having sex while i have blood coming outa me lol...but he said he wouldnt care.I wouldnt know if i poped my cherry eather if i was on my period at the time...i want to know when it gets poped just becuz its sumthing i cant ever do again.So what do u think please help me out here.i want to have sex with him realy bad..lol...i know...but i mean i just dont know i want it to be speacial also
2006-08-22 14:48:25 · 34 answers · asked by samilla_neal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he isnt rushing me 2 do anything at all...he understands if i want to wait till im off my period...there is no rushing at all ok
2006-08-22 14:57:54 · update #1
You really sound way too young to even be considering it. Why does it have to be on this particular day? Trust me, you will know cuz it's gonna hurt. Really, I think you need to reconsider the whole thing!
2006-08-22 14:51:39 · answer #1 · answered by funlady6632@yahoo.com 6 · 7⤊ 1⤋
When you "lol" at this and can not spell worth a damn, no wonder he doesn't care. YOU DO NOT CARE!
Let him have his way with you! You will be talked about forever as "The Girl Who Gave Up Her Virginity To A Guy That Said He Did Not Care If She Was Bleeding He Just Got What He Wanted And Never Talked To Her Again"!
All he has to do is shower. You have to live with it for the rest of your life!
2006-08-22 15:00:42 · answer #2 · answered by LN has3 zjc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your biggest concern is knowing whether or not you "popped your cherry", then you may want to wait to have sex for a while anyway.....basically, if you have sex, it's popped....it's not necessarily something you are going to notice even if you don't have your period, because it can happen if you use tampons too, so in some cases, popping your cherry is just another way of saying you are losing your virginity....just make sure that you really have strong feelings for this guy and you are willing to give up something that special for him...but if you are going to do it anyway, you may want to wait until you at least don't have your period...you might feel better about it yourself
2006-08-22 14:52:17 · answer #3 · answered by pineappleclock2002 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's obvious that ur not ready and if u have ur period while having sex that's even more disgusting.. it's just straight up gross... he's just saying that so he can f$%k u.. if he cared anything about u, he'd wait until u were ready and when of course u didn't have ur period..
get some selfesteem, and some morals because that is down right nasty.. their is not such thing as it being special.. ur planning it around ur period and ur probably not even ready for the responsibilities that come along w/sex and after sex..
u just better hope he doesn't tell people about it and hope that he still likes u afterwards and not just use u for sex..
2006-08-22 14:52:31 · answer #4 · answered by Queen D 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I would seriously wait intil the menstruation ends. You're going to want your first time to be very special and the blood is going to get in the way of that. Believe me it's nasty. Now about your hymen, It's going to pop the first time you have sex, unless his size is extremely small. Just tell him that you want to wait. It's only a couple of days anyways geez!!! Calm your hormones down little girl!!!!
2006-08-22 14:57:01 · answer #5 · answered by kimberly j 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if u are a minor..I think u should stay a virgin! The liklihood of u getting a STD is so much greater in teens and young adults. And 2nd just wait 'till yur period is over. I mean it just makes sense.
2006-08-22 14:51:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
From the way you describe what is supposed to be a special, emotionally-binding event, I don't think any advice is going to make a difference. You have it all planned out already and are worried about grossly-understoon physical aspects instead of what is important.
2006-08-22 14:52:28 · answer #7 · answered by kit_roamer 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all how old are you? secondly it is not going to be special because once you give it up you can't take it back. obviously he don't care about you because he is saying he don't care if your period come on or not, that means all he is thinking about is sex. after he gets it he may not want you anymore . he is not your husband so if it is not what either of you expected then what? he is going to go brag to his friends about how bad or good it was? if it is bad you will feel bad. save it for someone who cares about you like your husband. if it is good he is gonna keep coming for more bragging to his friends and then they might try to holla especially if they think they can get it as easy as he do.
2006-08-22 14:57:38 · answer #8 · answered by nurse2011 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u sound young
u need to wait
u will catch somethin espacilly when u got yo period
STD iz no fun
sex aint all that great when u a (virgin) it hurts
control yo hormonez
if u do da right thang you finna thank me some day
2006-08-22 14:54:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
What's your rush? You should wait until you are not having your period.
2006-08-22 14:51:40 · answer #10 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋