shes been my friend for soo long and i cant stand to see it end like this..all of a sudden shes like "i hate you and your boyfriend" on AIM and i try calling her, and calling her, and she hangs up everytime, and she wont talk to me and she said she hates me cause of my boyfriend which makes NO SENSE at all and i feel like crap right now cause of it and i DO NOT wwanna dump my bf becuase i really really like him and im crying right now over it
2006-08-22 14:31:22 · 9 answers · asked by TriManDaTopZzZz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
"Love" and "hate" are two sides of the same coin. It would be
worse if she were "indifferent" to you.
Leave her alone for awhile. If your friend ever regains her senses,
she will be back in your life again. If not, no loss...she sounds kind of loony.
2006-08-22 15:58:39 · answer #1 · answered by elcycer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friend dun turn sour overnight. It has been something that you are not fully aware that is happening among the three of you. It is very diffcult to choose best friend over boy friend and vice versa. On the other hand you are not willing to let go of both and you cant have both. If you want to retain your friendship speak to her and find out the TRUTH (why she hate u?) and work it out from there.
2006-08-22 21:44:38 · answer #2 · answered by fireman1fire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend dump for no good reason. I tried to be nice to her, and patch things up, but she just didn't want to be friends anymore. Do what you can, but knock yourself out over it. If she still wants to be friends, she'll come around. My so-called best friend has not spoken to me in over three years. Oh well.
2006-08-22 21:34:49 · answer #3 · answered by WEIRDRELATIVES 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave a msg on her yahoo on answering machine asking y does she hate you and your bf i'm not gonna say let her go since you guys were obviously really good friends, and something like that should not end that way
2006-08-22 22:15:45 · answer #4 · answered by OkieOk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't worry about it if they hate you now then they were never your friend. I know a good friend who is always there never mad and you can call on him whenever you need day or night and that GOD!!!!
2006-08-22 21:43:18 · answer #5 · answered by cupcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go.
all she wants is for you to break up and start crawling back to her anyway.
you're better than that.
meet a new best friend.
and be sure to hang around your bf and tug on his arm when their around xD to give them a "WHAT NOW?" reaction.â¥
2006-08-22 21:39:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hun it could actually be that she feels your not leaveing anytime for her since you got the new boyfriend. you probably dont relize that you devoted most spare moments to him instead of her.
2006-08-22 21:35:40 · answer #7 · answered by gingersnappz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is so not sensible, dump her! you don't need crappy friends like her.
move on
god bless
2006-08-22 21:33:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be honest and tell her how you feel
2006-08-22 21:35:17 · answer #9 · answered by .? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋