i have been with my guy for a while now but i cant seem to put a finger on him, can someone please tell me how can i tell if my guy is jealouse of me!
I hate to even have to ask this question, im not sure as to whether this is jelousy, hate, or insecurity.
for example: he will say to me at the end of the day after i just walked into the house that i make him mad and he dosent know why? today we stayed in 2 different rooms becuae i was preparing to return to school and he was watching television.
I cant seem to figure out what his deal was, and why hes so moody! i go to school and work and back home, but yet and still he accuses me of being FAKE! AND STUFF.
what is his deal, why is he so manyly when im around but dosent want me to go anywhere or better yet gets all bent out os shape if i do?
2006-08-22 14:28:26 · 9 answers · asked by gotchafool05 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Girl it seem like you simply deserve better, Thats all to it. He is not giving you any attention and with you being a woman you need it. Move on if possible.
2006-08-22 14:31:37 · answer #1 · answered by hodgesandguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say whether he has a job or other interests as you do. It sounds to me as though he may be a bit envious of your ambitions. Perhaps he feels once you have reached your goals, he'll get left at the depot. I would suggest a serious one on one conversation, and discuss whether he has a fear of losing you. A relationship cannot endure if you are not open and honest about your feelings. If you truly care about this man and he about you, then talk to each other. - unless you are afraid of what the answers may be.
2006-08-22 14:40:21 · answer #2 · answered by dreamchsr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its jealousy so much as controlling. if you were to look up "emotional abuse signs" you will find that they control you when playing with your emotions, acting mad for no reason and then being happy at other times...i was just going thru the same thing for 3 years.. it could drive you crazy!
the other thing may be his insecurity with the relationship.. he may feel that he doesnt make you happy and that you might find it outside the relationship. or he may be cheating and could be projecting his guilt onto you.
wish you the best...hope this helps!
2006-08-22 14:33:32 · answer #3 · answered by sylonthego 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to get another man this man has issues which u dont need to deal with especially when u r woorking hard and getting an education. he seems insecure and needy and want to show that he is not by defending himself and being all manly, get some one who will appritiate u and love u and not make u insecure abt urself. best of luck
2006-08-22 14:34:33 · answer #4 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should sit down n talk to him ask him what he want??? GIVE ATTENTION TO HIM. Boys n girls sometime being like children u know. Cause i usually being mad at my husband about nothing just want attention ha ha ha
2006-08-22 14:40:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is total jealousy. i feel that way sometimes about my boyfriend and it got pretty bad. and finally i realized i was totally insecure and jealous (i had no reason to be, but i was) he probably got hurt in a previous relationship and he is soooooo afraid that you are going to leave him/be out of his life.
2006-08-22 14:32:10 · answer #6 · answered by you suck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another guy here.... I think he's feeling guilty for something and is mad at himself but he takes it out on you. Watch him. he's guilty of something wrong.
2006-08-22 14:49:50 · answer #7 · answered by Highbeam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey maybe he's Bipolar and should go get checked.
2006-08-22 14:31:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey he sounds like he might become abusive i would leave if i was you
2006-08-22 14:32:16 · answer #9 · answered by mickey4eva03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋