Ive known this guy for a few years. And we're kinda friends. Ive talked to him a lot and I have his screename. all my friends know I like him, and they've all told him. I'm kind of a shy person and find it hard to tell him myself. but I really, really like this kid. I'm afraid to talk to him online because I'm afraid he'll think I'm annoying. I have talked to him before, but I dont want to over do it. And it turns out that he's going to a different school now, and I still like him. No matter how hard I try, he's always on my mind. What should I do? Is there a way to get him to notice me? but i want to do it discretely. This kid really breaks my heart because I'm afraid I'll never get over him.
2006-08-22 13:54:27 · 23 answers · asked by lindsey m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Go to the tennis courts that he is a member of and ask if you can join him in a game of tennis. When he sees how great a player you are ...he will be impressed and you will become regular tennis partner....he will talk to you frequently about a non-threatening subject and get to know how great you are inside....then move on to more serious topics. This can apply to any activity he does...swimming, soccer, music , art...not just tennis. Oh ...I have met many boys ...at dances...they like the way I dance. You could invite him to your school dance in a casual way. " I notice that you are not at our school anymore and I would like to let you know that the school dance is Friday and you should go and catch up with your friends." then if he goes to the dance...ask him to dance with you. Good luck
2006-08-22 13:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by toe poe gee gee oh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try!!! The minute you stop trying and you like someone else, he'll be all over you just how you wanted the week before.
That's just how it is. And you will get over him, and you will be amazed you ever liked him in a few days or months but for sure you'll look back in a couple of years and laugh at how crazy you got over him.
2006-08-22 21:00:02 · answer #2 · answered by sisifue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lindsey-
Stop trying. If he doesn't like you, too bad for him. I know you have heard it before, but you're young. Way too young to fix youself on one guy. I know how you feel, really... It hurts inside to think that you like someone SO much and they don't like you the same. I'm a shy person myself. VERY shy. I've been where you're at. I know it hurts... You will get over him. Life will go on. Believe me, I know it.
2006-08-22 21:10:24 · answer #3 · answered by Johnny P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel I'm shy too. You should make a move and send him an e-mail. Keep it short and sweet so he knows your thinking of him.You won't be annoying if you only send 1. And If he e-mails back then go ahead and keep goin and talkin never know what could happen :)
2006-08-22 21:00:09 · answer #4 · answered by fairylover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well with guys beating around the bush just doesn't work, it either ends up they get with some other girl who is more open or they just think that if you are playing games now then you will always play games. Be honest with him, tell him what your feelings are and chances are if he feels the same then he will open up and you two will get closer.
2006-08-22 20:58:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just fallow your heart! If you really like him take the first step and go from their. Rember if he terns you down thats all thats going to happen. The wourld is not going to end BC he dosent like you.
2006-08-22 20:57:19 · answer #6 · answered by can_love_kill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him. if he thinks ur annoying and doesnt like u back, then u know ur wasting ur time. find another guy
theres too many of them out there to get caught up w/ a guy who doesnt care about u
2006-08-22 20:56:56 · answer #7 · answered by ynkygal741 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont be afraid. talk with the guy. speak up theres no reason to be shy around a guy. im serious. they are only guys
2006-08-22 20:55:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats the same way i feel about my friend at school at my high school but i know she likes me i just dont have any advice but be yourself, but talk to him too i know im a boy he might like u 2
2006-08-22 20:58:00 · answer #9 · answered by lil boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him an IM or call him and just ask him out. Just ask him out to a movie or whatever that people do around where you live that's fun. JUST DO IT this week before you chicken out.
2006-08-22 21:02:03 · answer #10 · answered by S007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋