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Today is my Birthday and i am feeling really depressed i turned 24 and i got in the mail childsupport check and it was $50.00 instead of $400.00 that i unsual get because my babyfather agree to pay $400.00 now he have cut the amount because i want sleep with him i know it wrong with he is doing but i contact childsupport services and they wont give me an answer i can't support my baby on $50.00 an month that not enought i want to know what should i do and why is he doing this to me someone please help???

Answer 1

because he is an A*S*S, sometimes men (and some women) try things to manipulate you. If it is a court order he can just "cut" the amount even if you don't sleep with him. I don't know how old your child is and I don't know what you do for a living, but maybe you should try to take this one into your own hands, try and get a job (if you are not working) that way you really don't have to depend solely on him. My son is 11 and his father only has to pay $52 a week, but he has not paid since my son was about 9. He owes me over $5000, but you know what as hard as it is to believe I am not stressing it b/c I did what I just told you to do. I have a good job and I depend on him for nothing! He walks around in expensive clothes and shoes, but guess what he is living in a rented truck; while I own my own car, home, and send my son to a good private school . So believe me it may hurt now, but if you stop depending on him it will start hurting less. And he will be looking really stupid in the end because while he is thinking that he hurting you the child support money will steady build, and some states garnish wages and revoke driver's licenses! Let him be an a*s*s all by himself! Happy Birthday

Answer 2

Today is my Birthday and i am feeling really depressed i turned 24 and i got in the mail childsupport check and it was $50.00 instead of $400.00 that i unsual get because my babyfather agree to pay $400.00 now he have cut the amount because i want sleep with him i know it wrong with he is doing but i contact childsupport services and they wont give me an answer i can't support my baby on $50.00 an month that not enought i want to know what should i do and why is he doing this to me someone please help???

Answer 3

I have to tell the truth here, you are still sleeping with him? Then you are the fool. There is a reason he is an EX! Right? Let it go, he's not the only "MAN", and i use the term loosely, (hes no man if he cant keep up his responsibility for the child), in the world. He is a total looser when it comes to taking on the responsibility of being a "father",another term i use loosely. You need to get with it, take him back to court, get your money he owes, make him do the right thing. If not then let him rot in jail!! He aint worth all the drama he's putting on you. He has proven that already, by not doing what he HAS to do. This "BOY" will never be a man as long as you keep letting him control you. Fix his wagon, but good, in some states, they can take his license(driving and business) thay can take his gun permit, if he has the smarts to have one. They can ruin his life, all you have to do is make that call and stay away from this boy!! The point is, if you keep messing with him, you'll never get anywhere, and you will ALWAYS be the FOOL. Think about it! He doesnt care about you or the child!! Sorry to be so harsh, but i deal with this kinda filth every day here and it pisses me off to see good girls get used like this, by this kinda trash. Good luck with what ever you do

Answer 4

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Answer 5

If you're going to have a relationship with him then I don't think he should have to pay the child support. If you love him enough to want to sleep with him, why not marry him? That's the way it should be in the first place. If you don't love him, then don't sleep with him. It will just create more children for you and him to support. You could get a job. That would support your child.

I get so tired of all these women saying "child support". It takes two to create a child. If you don't have any plans of support for when the man runs out then you should do something to keep from becoming pregnant in the first place. Women want equal rights until it comes time for child support.

Happy Birthday!

Answer 6

you cant get a lawyer in these case's they will take all of your money and your really should be going through some kind of family services agengcy rather than just hopeing he will send you the money if you are going through an agency they give him the entire month to come up with the money he can pay any amount at any time as long as its all there before the end of the month. and your should'nt even consider sleeping with him so that he will pay his child support if he is really putting you in that position record it and report him. you should know the courts will give him a thousand chances to get a job or they will put him in work programs or on probhation before they ever really do anything it depends on what state you live in. but if you have gone through all of that with him and he has a court order to pay if he falls to far behind you can request that he be arrested but that could take awhile. my best advice to you is learn how to take care of that baby on your own and dont depend on him to do it for you if the money comes in great but dont expect it or budget around it.

Answer 7

Write a letter or call the Child Support Enforcement Agency.

Answer 8

Happy Birthday, go celebrate, and deal with the child support problem tomorrow, or at least take the 50 bucks and buy yourself a cake and a gift.

Answer 9

I would get a hold of your lawyer ASAP!!!He CANNOT do this. If he's suppose to pay $400 a month, he has to pay $400 a month. No Ifs, AND's or BUT's. OK? He's doing it to be a jerk. It shouldn't have anything to do with you sleeping with him. I'm sorry you're having a bad day on your birthday. I hope this helped. HAPPY BIRTHDAY. GOOD LUCK!

Answer 10

If I were 24 and this was my life I would be depressed too. You keep on making one mistake after another and then are all upset because your life is a mess, what did you expect? Your question is a pathetic "why is he doing this to me". Why isn't it "how can I can my life on track?" $350 is not going to solve your problem.