2006-08-22 13:44:59 · 9 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Simply SUSPECTING that your mate is cheating is a clue. But, simply suspecting that your mate is cheating is also a form of "cheating". When we "suspect" or imagine behaviors that are outside of our covenants of love, WE are outside, or, cheating the covenant of trust. One woman to another: It never lasts after we have that suspicion. For me, I used my "suspicions" to mask my own growing desire to leave the relationship, which was an unacceptable thought, considering how much a covenant of trust means to me. So, perhaps, I tried to "suspect" HIM of breaking the trust so that I wouldn't have to accept my own responsibility in the breakdown of the covenant. Good luck, but look before you leap.
2006-08-22 13:58:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay attention to details. Follow your instincts, if you feel like something is not right..then figure out what. Don't be over exaggerated, women tend to do that and that damages a relationship. Be specific in your question..is there something that makes you think somebody is cheating?..
2006-08-22 20:48:58 · answer #2 · answered by ..Luna.. *.. ) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he is constantly accusing YOU of being unfaithful.
When he either loses interest in sex, or wants too much of it.
When he seems constantly unhappy or annoyed with you.
When you notice that his latest female coworker is making him little handmade "cards".
When some slut shows up on your doorstep, claiming that she's pregnant with his child.
When he gets out of work at 10pm, but doesn't come home til 3am, and gets annoyed with you when you tell him you were worried.
When all of his friends are hinting about him cheating.
When his cell phone shows a bunch of phone numbers, incoming and outgoing, that you do not recognize.
When you find a change of clothes in the trunk of his car (what grown man needs a backup?)
Shall I go on???
2006-08-22 20:54:38 · answer #3 · answered by tictickchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only true way to know is the hardest way as well. To trust your insticts. There will ALWAYS be an excuse for suspicious actions. But your gut instinct will never lead you wrong.
2006-08-22 20:51:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire a detective to spy on them. That's how my mom found out my dad was cheating.
2006-08-22 20:46:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call cheaters and the host will track him down wit the other person
2006-08-22 21:01:02 · answer #6 · answered by llama boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have a handful of STD's
2006-08-22 20:50:19 · answer #7 · answered by bhcky79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you catch them lying to you.
2006-08-22 20:46:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call cheaters. http://www.cheaters.com/
2006-08-22 20:47:44 · answer #9 · answered by Goddess of Nuts PBUH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋