My best friend wont talk to me anymore and I dont know why, it has been a few months since i ve seen or talked to her, and it bothers me why she doesnt talk to me, she used to live with me but she brought a guy over that she met off of the internet and my dad found out and got upset, but all he said was never again, but my little sister who didnt live with us didnt want her there any more. And one night she left. She told me where she was going and that she would call me, I asked her if she was sure, and if thats what was best for her...she said yes...i cried and we hugged as she left...she told me she would call and she never did. I am a girl, and she is the only girl i can say that i loved...and i am not homosexual.... but it hurts and it aggravating....
2006-08-22 13:21:27 · 9 answers · asked by Claudie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2006-08-22 13:23:55 · answer #1 · answered by AmandaGurl<3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is, people, in general are complicated and that's what makes life interesting and sometimes challenging.
There could be a variety of reasons why your friend decided not to talk to you. It could be that she is acting irresponsibly with meeting guys from the internet and she's afraid of being judged by you or your father so she stays away.
Or, she may have just gotten so involved in it that she has temporarily decided to neglect those most important.....Guys come and go, but good friends last forever. If this is the case, she is making a big mistake.
Maybe she has gotten in trouble with one of her meetings.
Whatever it is, I'm sure you're frustrated, hurt and frightened for her. If you can, send her an email or leave her a voice message on her phone, telling her that you feel hurt by what she is doing to you but that you continue to care for her and you are worried about her. Tell her that you hope that she is being careful with her actions because you care about her welfare. Finally, let her know that, you are still there if she needs you.....if that's the way you feel...or, on the other hand, let her know that, by her actions, she may be making a decision about your friendship that she will later regret....and then, the ball is in her court.
Good luck and focus on good friends and family who are there for you. Those who aren't....see it as their loss....and move on.
2006-08-22 13:50:51 · answer #2 · answered by srhonda61 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All human beings are complicated, being a collection of inputs over a lifetime, of which any may be considered relevant at some point in time. It's just one of the facts of life, and you have to get along with it.
2006-08-22 13:38:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has their reasons for their actions.
People move on and they may have forgotten or want to forget the past. It hurts but you just have to move on with your life.
Make other friends. Few relationships can last forever.
2006-08-22 13:50:33 · answer #4 · answered by justagal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple answer:... read three very short books:
He
She
and
We
by Robert Johnson. No further info will be needed.
2006-08-22 13:24:07 · answer #5 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know where she is living write to her,with pen and paper,
do you know where her family lives, try to contact them explain that you are worried about her welfare and ask them to pass on a letter or a phone number, if you do not get a reply then it is her choice,her privacey at least you tried, regards LF
2006-08-22 13:27:59 · answer #6 · answered by lefang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg... that should hit really hard on you.... wow.. I don't really know what I would do... but I just have to say that that is alot of drama & complication
2006-08-22 13:23:37 · answer #7 · answered by marinescheerleader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been asking that question my self for a long time.
2006-08-22 13:23:09 · answer #8 · answered by Shadow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's in our BLOOD
2006-08-22 13:29:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋