what if you are in a world full of people and you can't find your self?
2006-08-22 12:42:14 · 14 answers · asked by brandi c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
baby girl, once you don't recognize who you really are. this is the time to find your center. your core will remind you who you are and your direction.
2006-08-22 12:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know who you really are. You just have to stop trying to imagine who other people THINK you are.
Try this. Tonight when you're in bed, think of someone you admire. Ask yourself why you admire them. Are they smart, or confident or honorable or noble etc...Now, take those traits and apply them to yourself. If you start applying the traits you admire in someone else, to yourself...you will become the person you WANT to be. You're just growing as a person right now and it's confusing. Don't let others define who you are. Use common sense and choose who you want to be. I mean, you know right from wrong and you aren't going to apply the traits of some drug addict or gangsta to yourself...but choose GOOD things. They're already in you, but sometimes you see them more easily in someone you admire. Just the fact that you ask makes me think you're smart enough and introspective enough to CARE what kind of person you are, and to question why others are who they are.
2006-08-22 12:55:12 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i have the same problem.. well this is generally a tough question.. the way you feel about things, the way you say things and the way you act upon things are what makes you you.. i have the same problem,, i feel theres things about me that i want to change but i can't.. for example i become impatient with my sisters a lot and i would like to change that... so i think there may not be an exact perception of who you are because your feelings, thoughts and actions change as you live life and mature
2006-08-22 13:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you cant find yourself, youre looking in the wrong places. instead of trying to find yourself in a group, do some solo time and really think about your life. think about all your accomplishments and what they mean to you. think of your morals and values. think of what you do everyday, think of what you think of! just try to get a taste of the real you. the you that comes out when no one else is around. tell your friends you need some solo time, and turn off your cell phone. sink into yourself and you will discover who you really are.
2006-08-22 12:49:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's impossible not to find yourself god made all of us in a unique way and if you seek him and get a personal relationship with the Lord you will find you
2006-08-22 12:57:53 · answer #5 · answered by kaybg22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never try to find myself.
I usually find other people and see myself reflected in them.
2006-08-22 12:44:23 · answer #6 · answered by vernes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It comes to you. Really. I'm not trying to be funny. It just does.
2006-08-22 12:44:01 · answer #7 · answered by vanamont7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then maybe you need to talk to somebody you feel comfortable w/. Or maybe you need professional help!
2006-08-22 12:44:46 · answer #8 · answered by countrysoonergurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont "decide" who you are. you are who you are. and you know who you are when you can make decisions that are not based on other people's opinions.
2006-08-22 12:46:01 · answer #9 · answered by jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you learn to understand your behaviour, it is easy to be able to get answer to this
2006-08-22 12:44:37 · answer #10 · answered by DEAR T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋