and they're no longer together. i went over to his house one night and we talked and made out n everything and almost had sex...well then i was suppose to take him to an appointment the next day and i called him n he wasnt home. so i finally got a hold of him and he told me he would call me later that night. i didnt hear anything from him so i went to his ex's and he was there...he was as shocked to see me as i was him. this was after he told me he dont wanna b with her n **** and he was there to see his baby but he was stayin the night n she was takin him to his appt. so im like ok im like maybe we should just stop talkin bcuz i think u 2 should just work it out. and hes like why do u say that and im like cuz that's what i think you want. and hes like i dont know what i want but i dont think it's that. so im like ok w/e ya know...and i told him to call me sometime...what's up with all this? what's going on? should i call him? or wait for him to call me? please help. thank u
2006-08-22 12:38:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Wow what a real winner! The man who father's a child abandons the mother to hook up with the mother's friend who he has known for 5 years. Doesn't have a car and doesn't have a job to support himself and his child. And can't make a decision whether to bang the mother or you.
Sounds like a guy worth fighting for.
2006-08-22 12:51:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The relationship is lopsided. He is using your love for him to take advantage of you. He doesn't love you. He sees that you are all moon-faced about him and so that makes him think he can make you do whatever he wants. Has he asked you for any money yet? You need to forget about him and look for someone that might fall in love with you.
Five years!!!? You should have given up on this guy a long time ago.
2006-08-22 13:11:36 · answer #2 · answered by Doctor Hand 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 10:22:44 · answer #3 · answered by hewlin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let go of ur fantacy of him. he is in a very weird situation with a baby and everything. the baby's mom is a friend of urs. i don't think u should get involved in any way. what makes u think he won't do the same thing to u the way he did it to ur friend.
move on. there r many other great guys out there who will treat u right and r dying to meet u.
good luck and be smart.
2006-08-22 12:42:48 · answer #4 · answered by Unicorn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never speak to him again!
He's playing mind games on you! And you are going to end up as an unhappy booty call!
If she is really your friend you wouldn't even entertain this idea another minute!
I can't believe you would even want to, I can't even think of a guy that way once he's been with my friend!
2006-08-22 12:44:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this guy is torn and confused on what he should and what he wants to do. Step back and wait till he calls you. Let him think over and decide for himself.
2006-08-22 12:50:31 · answer #6 · answered by Bazinga 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just forget him he is just playing both of you and as long as he has a kid with the other girl he will always be involved with her in some way or another no matter what he says move on and find someone of your own
2006-08-22 12:41:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call him or see him anymore, but that's just me. He made it clear what he's all about and it's not reciprocation of your love. If you don't want to become another baby's mom in his life, steer clear. Sorry, but it just doesn't sound good....
2006-08-22 12:48:52 · answer #8 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to use punctuation and a spell checker.
This will keep you distracted and he will move on to someone else.
2006-08-22 12:45:04 · answer #9 · answered by MoneyB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your boy wants to have his cake and eat it too. He's playing you. Get rid of him.
2006-08-22 12:41:06 · answer #10 · answered by Angel Baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋