Okay, im NOT dressing like a whore i mean i wear pants like all the time!! Even though i have a hot body (that what the boys always say). Why do they want to have sex with ME!! i wish they wud just leave me alone and keep their hands off. And i cant tell on them because these are the kind of guys that WILL hurt me and rape me and im soo SCARED!! nothing well help...i dont know what to do! why do they want me? i'm a virgin why would they want a virgin? A 14 year old freshman shouldnt be going though this!These guys scare me so much i just cry sometimes in my room to figure out what to do? please help me with this!!!!
2006-08-22 12:31:42 · 5 answers · asked by Lh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
go to the principals office and file sexual harrassment.
2006-08-22 12:34:47 · answer #1 · answered by renee1724 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek legal recourse. Tell your parents. Tell the teachers. Tell the police. Tell EVERYONE. And get yourself some martial arts training. Get some mace. Don't use it unless you have to, but when the time comes, don't flinch. Hose 'em down.
Most importantly, tell a lot of people what you think is going on. Get it out in the open.
If you go the martial arts route, stay away from any one who's teaching for competition or sports. Those aren't what you want in this case. You want butt kicking. Tell your instructor as much.
If you can't tell anyone else, tell the police. NOW. Don't wait. As soon as you read this, call the police. Tell them everything. Then tell your parents. When you get to school, tell every single teacher you can, if the police haven't already handled the situation. And then, if they don't get the message, go to a lawyer and sue the ever-loving piss out of them. Press charges in civil court. Ruin their lives.
And get your mace. Be aware, use of mace without just cause (i.e. self defense) is an act of terrorism under federal law (unless the Patriot Act has already expired), so only use it if you have to. And then, when you end up in court, tell the judge (or the jury) that you feared you were going to be violated. That's due cause for use of a GUN under the laws of the United States.
Good luck. Now CALL THE COPS.
2006-08-22 19:48:59 · answer #2 · answered by Lokishadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is happening at school, tell someone there about it. If it's just out in the world.....there is not much you can do. Some guys are just creeps. You can try to avoid problem areas...any place there are a lot of guys. And you can try the whole baggy clothing bit, but neither will help much.
The best you can do is just set it aside. So guys will want you, you don't really care. You know they are not gonna get you, and will just have to dream. Your at least better off then the ugly girls who get no attention..
2006-08-22 19:38:58 · answer #3 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell your parents; then get a big can of mase to put in your purse. It's a shame these guys are harassing a 14 yr. old. Your first priority is to avoid them at all costs if possible. These guys probably get more aggressive when their in a group too. Let someone know (friend, someone who works in law enforcement, especially a neighbor, etc.) of your situation so they can keep a lookout in your neighborhood. Hope this helps, Good luck.
2006-08-22 19:44:32 · answer #4 · answered by striden22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to office and report it, then file charges with local police department.
2006-08-22 19:37:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋