Ive been hurt by a few women in the past, but i don't think all women are bitches !!.. I know there are good women out there, Ive seen plenty on these Q&A pages :-)
2006-08-22 11:49:43 · 26 answers · asked by Richard 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
because some of us have been treated like crap by men and dont know any diffrent and when a guy says that they would do anything for us or are nice we fail to believe it because we have herd the same before, only it turned into being a lie and we loose trust.....
2006-08-22 12:12:50 · answer #1 · answered by *lonely one* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...I think most women think that there are plenty of genuine and nice guys out there, but they're hard to find! I think most women have been hurt, just like you. I personally, know that there are plenty of great guys out there.
2006-08-22 18:51:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some guys assume that girls only go for the 'bad boy' so they act like someone they aren't. And because guys like to tell each other how to get girls and because sometimes the whole bad boy act actually works, they think it works on all girls when it doesn't. In fact, it will cause many of the women who ARE trusting to avoid you completely. They want the real you, not some mask you put on to make yourself look good.
2006-08-22 18:57:44 · answer #3 · answered by dragongurl411 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that a lot of women are left jaded by bad relationships, not all men are as nice as you. There is an abundance of them who are rude, immature, selfish and only think with their willy. Ones like this never seem to lose an opportunity to display this fact, and some women do fall for it for reasons I can never fathom out.
They are out there though, the nice ones- I know because I have one of my very own : )
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2006-08-23 05:53:07 · answer #4 · answered by lady_sephie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The possibility suggests itself that the women who believe there are no nice guys out there haven't found one and therefore have their belief. There is also the possibility that they haven't found one because they do not require a guy to be genuine and nice before they allow them into their life.
2006-08-22 19:00:47 · answer #5 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most women do believe that these guys are out there, they just don't want to believe they will ever meet him. I tend to trust people until they give me a reason not to. However, based on my personal hurts from childhood to 41, it only takes a microscopic issue to bring on the doubt. So if you meet someone important enough to you, please take the time and effort to erase any doubts they may have about your sincerity.
2006-08-22 19:04:18 · answer #6 · answered by DCwill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well from my past relationships I have been hurt alot. It depends on the past relationships that women have had on how they look at men.I have now found a man that is good to me and I am very lucky to have him. Not all men are bad. But with women who have had bad relationships in the past it is very hard for them to find the trust they once had. It depends on the situation of each person. But their are good women out there. Please don't give up! You will find her hon. GOODLUCK!!!!
2006-08-22 19:00:53 · answer #7 · answered by wizegirl_70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because just when you think you can trust someone new, (hoping that maybe, just maybe, the new guy will be different) he goes and does something to prove to you that he is like all the rest of them. And thus far, there goes your hope, faith and belief that he could have been different. If there are truly decent and nice men out there, they must be hiding...
2006-08-22 18:53:10 · answer #8 · answered by love_my_4x4 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because there are those men out there who are jerks and they put out a bad reputation for all the other men. once a girl has been with two or three jerks, they are led to believe that all guys are like that. Luckily, not all girls pick the jerks so there is still a chance for you to get a girl that will really appreciate you.
2006-08-22 18:53:34 · answer #9 · answered by laylay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend cheated on me a coupe of years ago I thought that I wouldnt be able to trust another guy again but I was wrong I was ablle to trust him suprisingly. I relized that we were young and we both didnt know what we wanted. Some girls dont forgive and they are stubburn in what they think some women are scared to be hurt again........lots of reasons....
2006-08-22 18:58:41 · answer #10 · answered by katie p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋