There is a guy he is 16 years old and I am 13.Both of us like each other but my best friend likes him too.do you think that I have to stop crushing on him just because my best friend likes him????
Or just tell my best friend that he is my love and I will still like him even if she does too???
2006-08-22 11:33:03 · 12 answers · asked by Jeniffer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you are 13 who cares. you will have lots of boyfriends. dont lose your friend
2006-08-22 11:36:24 · answer #1 · answered by ssgtusmc3013 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you're only 13 first off. If you're capable of just dropping the crush, wouldn't it be better to go that route? In my opinion, it probably isn't worth fighting over a guy (or a girl in my case) with a best friend when you're going to meet TONS of other dudes in high school, then college, and even your first job. Hope that helps.
2006-08-22 18:37:34 · answer #2 · answered by steveo88x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ultimately it's the guy's choice. But to be nice, you should talk this over with your best friend, I mean she is your best friend!! Tell her that you don't want to hurt her by going out with the guy and you want to make sure it would be okay with her.
2006-08-22 18:38:11 · answer #3 · answered by MakeBelieve. All you want. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can both have crushes, but neither of you should date him since he's a little too old for you at this point.
2006-08-22 18:35:18 · answer #4 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crushing on him? Anyway, let's allow the guy to decide, as he is fair game. You cannot stop another person from pursuing anyone. Let the guy decide.
2006-08-22 18:34:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you stop liking him just because your friend does. Will they not like him because you do? Who does he like? maybe neither one of you. You're 13... it's not like you're marrying the guy.
2006-08-22 18:36:52 · answer #6 · answered by poopdoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey hey listen before telling ur best friend that u like that guy, first find out that does that 16yr old guy likes u or ur friends. it's a normal way that gurls like guys but it's important that who does that guy like.
If he like you then, there is no plb with ur friend but if he likes ur friend then, by telling her that she should leave bec he is ur love ur will lose ur friend so plz keep in mind first find out who does that guy like and then proceed furter bye
2006-08-22 18:38:01 · answer #7 · answered by Khu$hboo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go with him because if you let your friends control your feelings about a boy your going to let him go and im pretty sure your wont be happy . like me with out a girl in my life it would boring, same for you if a man is not in your life it would be boring go get him girl!!!!!!!!
2006-08-22 18:44:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't tell her that you like him too. If she already knows tell her that you don't like him anymore but you secretly do. It's just one little fib. I hope that my advice has helped you.
2006-08-22 18:37:04 · answer #9 · answered by Why Is The Rum Always Gone? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he likes u just tell ur best friend that
if she cant take it
screw her!
2006-08-22 18:35:29 · answer #10 · answered by Whompa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋