One is confused and angry about their sexuality and the other is confused and has no self control.
2006-08-22 11:21:05 · 30 answers · asked by cdfrx 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Wow, some good responses. But it seems like the gays and bisexuals do not agree totally. And wow are those gays angry.
2006-08-22 13:01:16 · update #1
Why are people so afraid to say that being gay or bisexual is just plain wrong?
2006-08-23 16:27:02 · update #2
Finally - someone has the same question as so many other heterosexual people in this world! Really - we just DON'T get the whole "gay & bi" thing!
2006-08-22 11:56:44 · answer #1 · answered by nattie_mae 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
So you didn't really want to ask a question , but make a statement about your dislike of people who aren't straight with a little dig at the end in that you think gay people have no self control i.e are sluts. All this with no citing of any evidence that bisexuals are angry and confused or gays are angry and have no self control. If you want people to be on "your side" rather than have everyone living in harmony, you need to produce the goods to back up your claims.
Why don't you just say that you don't like gays and bisexuals?
Gary you don't understand a word of what you wrote.
2006-08-22 18:31:44 · answer #2 · answered by n2mustaches 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't know that anyone is particulary confused about it.
Being gay =being sexually attracted to those of your own sex.
Neing bisexual =being sexually attracted to not only those of your own sex, but also to those of the opposite sex.
Most gay & bisexual people I've met are no angrier, in general, than those who are straight.
Most gay & bisexual people I've met are in exclusive relationships. Yes, one can just as easily be bisexual & in a monogamous relationship as another can be straight or gay & in a monogamous relationship -just because you're sexually attracted to those of both sexes doesn't mean that you're actively having sex with those of both sexes any more than being straight (or gay) means you're having sex with every person of the opposite (or same) sex you're attracted to.
2006-08-22 20:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So very wrong.. Im bisexual and I am not angry about my sexuality and I have more self controll than most straight people I know. I refuse to bed hop or have sex with anyone I am not in love with. There are just as many permiscuous straight people as there are gays and bis
2006-08-22 18:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by impossble_dream 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Neither is confused. I know I'm attracted to both males and females, no confusion there. I'm not angry and I have plenty of self-control too. I can be bisexual and monogamous, you know.
2006-08-22 18:23:05 · answer #5 · answered by i luv teh fishes 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no but I should start copy and pasting this so people can get it, OK one more time.
Put a gay guy in front of a naked women and he will want to dress her up and take her shopping.
Put a naked women in front of a Bisexual and he will want to go to town on her ahahah now do you understand?
2006-08-22 18:42:16 · answer #6 · answered by Buddy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you'd looked into it you'll see that a person who is homosexual prefers to be with people of the same sex, and bisexual is someone who has no preference and prefers either male or female.
And to me your question sounds a little homophobic.
2006-08-22 18:23:16 · answer #7 · answered by afterbirth07 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm not either one of them, and I still think this is pure ignorance, and ignorance makes me angry quite often. The only gays I know who are angry are angry about one thing - bigots like you - and who can blame them. Stop giving straights a bad name will ya?
2006-08-22 20:17:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
cdfrx,
I think that I am bi. That's because I prefer women but have been permissive with some men.
I'm also a Christian. So I am judged on that kind of thing.
I am sexually inactive, so the self-control issue might be a litttle exaggerated.
2006-08-22 19:18:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not really whane you are gay you like guys. But when you are bisexual you like both guys and girls.
2006-08-22 18:24:09 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, thats totally wrong. One person is attracted to members of the same sex, and one is attracted to members of both. Did you know that most homophobes are actually repressed homosexuals?
2006-08-22 18:22:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋