Okay my friend told me that her Dad was cheating on her mom. Because my friend saw her dad with another woman. But her dad didn't know that she saw what happen. So she ask me should she tell her mom about it and talk it over with her dad on what she saw... I didn't know what to say. What would you do?
2006-08-22 11:19:30 · 13 answers · asked by Nina The Latina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would talk to the dad (no matter he explanation) then immediately speak with the mother, giving her all the info she just got and what she witnessed. Then I would step back...good luck!
2006-08-22 11:29:19 · answer #1 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Talk to her dad first. She may have seen him with a woman, but that doesn't mean she saw him having an affair. Before she does some damage to her parents' marriage, she should give her dad a chance to defend himself. This is dangerous stuff for a kid to play with, especially just spitting that out at her mom.
2006-08-22 18:33:36 · answer #2 · answered by homebuyer 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
get her to talk to her father about it. if she still thinks after that he is still cheating than the next best thing is to tell her mum. but you have to be there for her at all times. she may just need help talking to her parents about it. just be there for her. i would tell her to ask her dad what is happening and tell him what i saw. i would then see what he say. but be with her all the way.
2006-08-22 23:59:03 · answer #3 · answered by been there done that 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should talk to her dad, explain what she saw. Then let him know either he tells her mum whats going on or she will. Your friend cant go on with that kind of a secret to hide, it would b eating her up.
2006-08-25 10:16:56 · answer #4 · answered by nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have her tell dad she knows what he is doing and if he does not stop then she well go to mom.
2006-08-22 18:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by kitkat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to talk with her father. Her mother could "kill the messenger" and blame your friend for causing trouble. Worse it could ultimately cause her parents divorce. She does not want to be a party to that. Tell her to talk to her father. Unless she literally caught them in the act she does not know for sure what's going on. The only way to deal with it is for her to talk with her father and explain her suspicion. Anything else is just destructive gossip. Did I say have her talk to her father?
2006-08-22 18:22:22 · answer #6 · answered by Flagger 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
maby your friend can just bring up to your dad i saw you at that place who was that lady you were talking to and then they can take it from there it could of been one of his frie3nds wives or anyone best not to assume the worst first
2006-08-22 21:19:50 · answer #7 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she should tell her mom what you saw. Let her know that she should tell her mom, that she didn't see it and she doesn't know what it meant, and that she wants to be left out of it. In other words, have her mother not tell her father who saw him.
Who knows, the parents may have already been splitting up. Good Luck!!
2006-08-22 18:27:48 · answer #8 · answered by Diamonds_4Ever 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
she should probably speak to her dad first and tell him that she knows he is cheating on her mum, and its better if he tells his wife rather then letting her find out from her daughter, it more humiliating if her daughter tells her that dad is cheating on her. Its between them.
2006-08-22 18:31:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it really isn't any of her fuc-king business... if she had a life she wouldn't be so worried about her mom and dad's life... leave it alone...
2006-08-26 06:38:27 · answer #10 · answered by rock n roll all night.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋